Nov 11, 2017
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i went for a run and i feel so much better about everything now, sitting at home all day when the weather is gorgeous and being stationary was doing my head in, and now i’m making some curry and dumplings, but i’m still not over mr mansplainy mcmansplain, and here’s another thing about it that bothered me -- being at the place i am now, and in the circle i interact with -- classmates in a very unexpectedly non douchey environment, mostly either women or men who actually respect you as an intelligent person (for terrible reasons obviously, like markers like you’re in the same law school as them, etc, you shouldn’t need an academic credential to respect a woman, but still), anyway, in this environment, everyone always speaks to one another with the assumption you know what they’re talking about. nobody would try and explain to each other concepts like the debate over whether minimum wage increase is good or bad or the ethics of humanitarian intervention in syria against isis, like, we all assume everyone knows the contours of the debate and either side of it already, we all speak assuming we know the framework of the debate and have well founded reasons for chosing a side on it. and that’s why we’re open to asking each other questions if we don’t know something the other is talking about -- we’re secure and equal and respect each other equally -- and so when we ask questions, we get respectful and nonpatronizing explanations from each other. so this just throws me back to amherst days, omfg, like where i get a ~rational explanation of the ~economic pitfalls of minimum wage arguments or whatever, and i just hate it, i just enjoyed being in this respectful space for the past year and i hate being violently dislodged out of it by this kameena.
twistsofsilver replied to your post “yo anyone online”
My favourite part is when you find proof you're correct and you get treated as if you're 'obsessed' because you took time to prove you're correct instead of getting an admission they made a mistake. Also women are always expected to prove their knowledge. You're not allowed to have an opinion unless you have two PhDs in the topic! While men can have seen 10 minutes of a documentary on youtube that one time...
RIGHT RIGHT RIGHT RIGHT ON ALL COUNTS
like, you’re obsessed, or you’re attacking them, or you’re being too nitpicky about something because they casually said something just plain WRONG and you, as a woman, have been socialized to doubt yourself, so you fact check it twice with reputable sources, and then they’re like ha ha youre crazy it’s just a debate lighten up :) i’ve had guys who immediately backed off talking to me about sports b/c i knew so much more about the sportthan they did and they just began to view meas bizzare or obssessive about it. the only level of knowledge guys will accept is enough to know what they’re talking about and interested in what they have to say, but low enough that you hang on to every word they condescendingly tell you in a way that’s trying to teach you.
AND YES TO THE SECOND THING. BUT ALSO IF YOU HAVE 2 PHDS, THEN YOU ARE JUST ABOUT ON PAR with MAN WHO HAS SEEN 10 MINUTES OF A DOCUMENTARY. like, then you’re finally on equal footing and such a smart girl! he can actually have a conversation with you :) not like other girls :) when in reality it’s like, actually, sit the fuck down and respect me because i know 100x moreabout this than you do.
like this one guy who tried to explain freedom of speech laws to me once, and engage with me on it. and i tried to explain to him 1) i was in law school and he wasn’t; 2) in undergrad i wrote a 25 page paper on it; 3) i am writing a grad school paper on it; and 4) i was doing a mock debate on it all quarter and writing a professional legal brief on first amendment issues supervised by actual attorneys who knew the law. like, if i was talking to someone who had such a vast differential in knowledge about the subject, male or female, i would defer, i would ask them questions, i would caveat my opinions with saying this was my impression but obviously they would know more about this. but no! this guy just carried on glibly and at some point i was like, just, in my head, i can’t continue this conversation, i can’t engage with you when you, if subconsciously, just fundamentally disrespect me. i cannot have you engage with me the way i would engage with a smart 14 year old, where i listen to and respect them and engage with them in a superior, sort of pedagogical way, admiring their intelligence “for their age.”
I accidentally typed misangry instead of misandry and I'm keeping it
drinkmasturbatecry replied to your post: casually puts on ignore a...
BUT WHAT ABOUT THEIR IMPORTANT MAN THOUGHTS AND THEIR PRECIOUS MAN FEELINGS
THEY WILL JUST HAVE TO BE SATISFIED WITH THOSE WHO ALREADY DEFEND THEM
for real though there are plenty of well-intentioned ~egalitarian ladies~ who think kissing male ass 24/7 is totally the way of the feminist future so like
the ~male feminists~ can just go hang out with them to get their fragile egos petted, im one crappy blogger so it's hilarious how disproportionately upset they are
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When I don't like people irl (because of their stances on sexism, racism etc.), the worst I can do is usually sth like not say ''bless you'' when they sneeze or not wish them a ''happy birthday'' when it's their birthday.
But when it gets to debating and putting up actual arguments, I can blow the roof off the building, I just mow them down with facts and the cold hard truth.
I only have Our Blessed Lady of Misandry to thank for giving me The Divine Strength of a Woman with Spite burning inside her and for making me realise I'm really just a hypocrite if I don't actually speak up when the chance arises, when I just let others wonder around with their ignorance, continuing to hurt others, when I could have stopped them from doing that by explaining things to them.
It is crucial we as women, planted on this Earth to suffer only to consult Our Lady of Sorrows, Our Sweet Divinity with all the Mercy and Grace we will ever need, it is crucial we realise our role in making our pain and suffering known, understood and eliminated, because if we don't speak up when we see wrong being spoken and done, we're letting it go on, we're a part of it.
So I ask Mary the Virtuous Queen of Heavens and Gynocracy to keep me pressed and ready to fight wrong when I see it. I'll be needing some help. We all will.
Amen
feminist: posts some misandry
buttmad male: whine whine how dare you sob sob equality blah blah you're just as bad woe woe
feminist: lol u mad
buttmad male: you have not responded to my whining with a logical argument therefore i win therefore you're wrong goodbye
feminist: u realise i am under no obligation to take u seriously rite
buttmad male: LA LA LA YOU WILL NOT DO AS I SAY THEREFORE YOU ARE WRONG WRONG WRONG
me: lol desperate
no but seriously if you see women reacting to an article/story/news item about male violence against women and the biggest problem you see is that some of the women are saying "kill all men" your priorities are fucked lol bye