#mentoring4subs

My job needs me to be super macho and masculine. How do i reconcile these two opposing sides of me?

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D/s relationships are, at their most fundamental level, about the exchange of power; the passing of power from a submissive party to a Dominant party.

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remember submission is your choice.  surrendering your desires is your choice.  choosing to give up control or give up your rights is the choice you get to make.

There has to be something there. It cannot be all physical attraction. The gears must turn. There has to be passion for something beyond sex.

I am mine, not yours. If you want me to be yours, show me you’re worth it.

While ideally, I’d prefer an actual masochist, either of the other types are also fine, as long as they approach the thing in the right spirit…

I often do things I am not interested in doing, derive no physical pleasure from, but get an absolute emotional thrill from going through with because it will please the man that requested it.

Be nice, and sensible, and don’t forget your manners. When you approach someone, be positive and communicative above all else.