#findingasir

There has to be something there. It cannot be all physical attraction. The gears must turn. There has to be passion for something beyond sex.

Be nice, and sensible, and don’t forget your manners. When you approach someone, be positive and communicative above all else.

The key to finding the ‘him’ you seek is to be the best ‘you’ that you can be and to never surrender hope.

Approaching a Dom online, on Recon or elsewhere takes some preparation.  i believe it is just like meeting face-to-face – the first impression counts.

You have a whole submissive life ahead of you - you’re choosing to better express yourself as a person. That’s going to be a wonderful journey.

It is vital to know what traits are REQUIRED and what traits would be nice to have. Knowing in advance this information allows you to sort through dominants more quickly.

I’m specifically writing this for boys who seek a relationship with a Sir with whom to have a power exchange relationship, and seek to make the best first impression possible.

I want to respect a boy’s body and mental space as much as he needs me to, and I don’t want to step on any land mines - if I call him a bitch and he gets angry as a result.