This is something I struggled with for so many years. I took the judgement of others including the judgement of my self and carried it on my shoulders. I always cared about what others would say or what others would think. As I have gotten old I realize that no one else opinion matters. Those who matter will not mind and those who go mind do not matter. Do what you want dress how you want. We may have a difference of opinion on things but that does not change how I feel about friendships, and relationships. Be you be who you want to be. Reach for the stars and don’t give up.