do u have any advice on figuring out whether ur a trans guy or butch nb lesbian?
so sorry this is so late, i keep forgetting or only remembering when i’m at work/etc!!
i think it’s useful to think of it as... who do you want to be, when you’re trying to be free of external pressures? what feels right and what feels wrong? how would you feel if someone said you couldn’t be nonbinary butch or couldn’t be a trans man? how about if someone positively referred to you as those things? what feels most comfortable, least like you’re acting because that’s what you think others want?
if you feel really conflicted, tugged in different directions, you also might want to look into multigender (genderfluid, bigender, etc) experiences!