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Enders Falls  

I haven’t been on Tumblr in so long and for those who follow me, I’m so sorry i’ve been inactive. College has been a whirlwind this semester and I’m finally having some free time before having to cram for finals. 

Life has thrown its usual ups and downs at me, but I’m trying with all my might, to fight back against it. In the beginning of this year, my grandmother passed away and this was a very hard loss for me because she was my only living maternal grandparent for the past 10 years, so it wasn’t an easy loss for me to handle. I’ve since healed and accepted her passing but keep hoping that wherever she may be, that she is happy. To leave this on a positive note, I’ve been interviewing bands for the radio station at my University which has provided me with so many opportunities that I wouldn’t normally be exposed to. So far, I’ve interviewed Brick + Mortar, Great Good Fine Ok, and Reel Big Fish. I’m hoping to expand upon the list next semester :) 

Moral of this post, I’m sorry I’ve been a shitty blogger and that even when life tries to bring you down, something will always be in the future to counteract it! 

Feel free to message me or whatever, you know where to find me! 

I’m starting a project based off of fears, whether they be legitimate such as, “I’m afraid of heights” or could be completely out there such as  “I’m afraid of hairdryers.” What I need for you, my lovely followers and non-followers, is to please inbox me your fears. You can keep them anonymous, have your url be followed by the fear, whatever you choose. I want to showcase the different fears in the world, regardless of how stupid or frustrating they may seem. I’m not sure how I’m going to compile them just yet, but I want to start gathering fears from people, instead of searching for weird fears from Google. 

Your help with this project is greatly appreciated. 

I know I’ve had that issue plenty of times. What I’ve done, which I can’t promise will work for everyone, I’ve sort of just took the initiative to get to know the person, likes, dislikes, and all that before thinking of a good friendship with them. It sort of just happens but I know that getting to know the person really well is a good start point. Maybe talking over social media like Facebook or something even if it’s just as simple as being like “hey a bunch of us are heading to *name of random place* do you want to join us?” I think that’s perfectly acceptable and not too forward and not awkward. But definitely take the time to get to know the person because the difference between being friendly with people and being good friends with that person is really knowing them and eventually, you’ll both find a comfort level between each other about opening up and they may, in turn, become one of your best friends, but the key thing here is to NEVER and I mean NEVER change who you are just to be friends with someone. You not only lose who you are, but you’re stuck with this fake version of you and it’s not worth it! Be proud to be you :) I hope this helps! If you need anything else, I’m here