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personality & habits tend to be very calculated

very selective about what they reveal, and are usually quite closed off (unless they have a counteractive placement, such as moon in 10th)

they tend to place great importance on their alone time, and like their solitude and independence

that being said, when they fall in love they can be extremely clingy & all-consuming, wanting to be around their partner all the time (venus-dependent) 

they often struggle with asking for help, and tend to frequently take on more than they can handle

pretty stubborn and might have issues with black & white / all or nothing thinking (depending on mercury)

likely to go through a lot of intense transformations & drastic changes throughout their lifetime, resulting in almost an entire “new” personality/self

likely quite moody yet still stable in their opinions, plans, etc

usually resistant to change and their task in this lifetime is to embrace it

these people usually develop passions in subjects like psychology, criminology, forensics, etc. they’re usually often super into things like astrology, tarot, etc as well! they love ‘investigating’

they tend to be drawn towards closed off people that they need to pick apart and analyze

they don’t take others opinions/suggestions/etc well, and hate being told what to do with a burning passion

hobbies & interests are usually kept private

tends to have a small friend group and prefers it that way, very much a “one best friend, few acquaintances” type

can take an extremely long time for them to feel comfortable in other’s presences and establishing a friendship, let alone a relationship, can take months to years with them

can be quite controlling & possessive, not just with loved ones but also with their hobbies, interests, etc - often tries way too hard to control things they have no control over (external events, other’s thoughts, etc)

very fragile ego and big fears of rejection 💀

very good with picking up on other’s energies and thoughts even before they say anything

i;m. i’m beghinng u not to call me that. i’m begiging u not to call me. that. 

Oh man. This is going to be fun *cracks fingers* LET’S GET IT!

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sun signs as well as ascendant signs, in my opinion, are heavily influenced by their decan (although decans can be applied to any placement of a sign)! so not necessarily the month, but the degree of the sign. a third decan and first decan capricorn sun, for example, act quite different in the expression and the way they relate to their sun placement.

there are three decans for every sign, and each decan has a different “sub-ruler” to the sign. the sub-rulers are different for every sign. i’ve noticed there’s a little disagreement about decan degrees (some say 0-10, 11-20, 21-30.. 0-9, 10-20, 21-30, etc), but generally i’d say like 0-9 degrees is decan one, 10-19 degrees is decan two and 20-30 degrees is the third decan. give or take, but use your own judgment!

using your example, a “march aries” is very likely to be in the first decan. this decan of aries has no sub-ruler, they are controlled solely by mars’ influence. this is the same with every other sign as well, the first decan is always ruled by the sign’s actual ruling planet(s), which is often why those born within the first decan tend to seem “more” like said sign (they aren’t “more” of that sign, but they do tend to fit the stereotypes more and display the energy more intensely/openly imo). a third decan aries, aka one born near the end of april, has jupiter as a sub-ruler. this is why, compared to first decan or march aries, these aries seem a lot more open-minded, flexible, calm and friendly. it’s also why they tend to not be as assertive, dominant, go-getting, energetic, etc as “march aries”.

also i am very strongly anti the concept of “sign cusps”, but i do think it’s helpful to pay attention to which sign it’s closer to. my reasoning being is, there’s this theory that signs have learned from the signs before them, and aspire to learn from the sign after them. so for example, aries are aware of pisces passive aggressive, shy, and flaky traits. first decan aries is the strongest in rejecting these traits, imo. third decan aries on the other hand is very close to taurus. they’ve yet to learn some taurus traits such as stubbornness, assertion, etc. even though those traits are also common in aries, i feel like you don’t see them as often in the third decan.

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very critical about their own appearance: likely to struggle with self-image and/or body image issues

they likely care a lot about the reputation & image of their partner/crush as well, and possibly even their friends

likely someone who always tries to stay polite & civil, even when ending friendships

tendency to be attracted to “broken” people that they feel like they have to fix: this placement has to be SUPER cautious of falling victim to people who use/take advantage of their kind, caring and healing nature

very lovable and friendly people and most people vibe with them instantly; they’re usually able to get along with almost anyone

very adaptable personality: likely to have different “personalities” for their various friends/platforms/etc

might have a love-hate relationship with pda? libra venus LOVES pda and being smothered in affection, especially verbally, but venus in 6th prefers privacy in their romantic encounters

tbh this placement is either gonna be REALLY good at expressing affection, or it will be so painfully awkward they can’t bring themselves to be openly romantic/soft/sentimental/etc (might be a constant cycle of this person talking about their feelings & feeling good/relieved, then instantly regretting it and being embarrassed for the next two years - even in friendships)

tends to take on the caretaker role in pairings / the “mom friend”

undeveloped (usually when younger) they can be a bit “superficial” (choosing whether or not to date people based more off their appearance, status, money, etc rather than your connection, their personality)

tends to be SUPER into beauty, especially skincare!! usually very good at makeup i’ve noticed as well

often very into fashion, tend to have a very put-together, “ceo” style (usually lots of pinks, pastels, neutrals in their closet. but ascendant/1st house can alter this)

such a huge huge soft romantic at heart; when they love someone they can go all out like the things you see in the movies, and of course they usually love these things in return (big romantic gestures, pda; usually right up their alley)

SO charming, most people are drawn to them because of their naturally flirty and seemingly open nature (although they actually hide their true feelings & intentions extremely well)

they tend to feel happiest when their life has a relatively stable and structured routine, they might overly-plan their hangouts with friends down to every single detail

the way their home environment looks is hugely important to them, they may actually get anxious when their home is messy/unorganized/not aesthetically pleasing; might be big on interior decor, architecture

tendency to be super insecure and requires a lot of reassurance from others

i think this is one of his most popular books but reading “kafka on the shore” changed my life and my way for thinking for sure especially since i read it in middle school. it’s really weird like WEIRD WEIRD and sometimes it’s borderline uncomfortable but a lot of things that happen are all metaphors that mean something greater even though they are literal in the book. i also recommend 1Q84 and norwegian wood which are two other of his most popular books but do nooooot watch the norwegian wood movie idk why but i hated it sisjsjsjhahahjsjso