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Pretty much had dinner and went to the theatre after! Been chatting with this guy on Bumble.

So basically, I’m not “goals” or “experienced sugar”, but here’s how the evening went:

My ride (a guy friend I met from college offered to be my chauffeur that night) dropped me off at the restaurant and when I got there, there was a bag sitting by my seat that said “Nice to meet you!”. Inside of it was a cake from my favorite bakery! then he pulled out a bigger bag full of other sweets and said either I could take my pick, or take the entire thing. Of course I opted for the entire thing. Quickly learned that it DEFINITELY DOESN’T HURT to take the tips on here from experienced sugars about telling your POT that you would like a gift on the first date. 

I expressed to him my love of high end international desserts in my messages so this was an okay gift. Next time I should say I love Louis Vuitton instead LMAO

Then after dinner we went to the theatre for classical music.

Another tip I’ve heard is that it’s best to make your POT dates short, but he didn’t seem like a serial killer and I actually REALLY enjoy the symphony so I went.  He bought more sweets and drinks at the theatre.

He wants to know what I expect of him and how our relationship will be ASAP. He knows I want to travel, but we still gotta discuss allowance/$$$.

We’re meeting again very soon to discuss $$$$$ but HIGHKEY I should’ve discussed it on this date, OR before the date. (I’ve heard the second date is fine to discuss this too, but I’m ready for cash because that’s the whole point of this ahhhhh) I’m learning as I go. But as far as safety goes, and screening, I currently have his entire name and work place at my disposal. He doesn’t seem crazy. And I also had my ride, fake name and shit planned with safety down on point.

I feel horrible for abandoning my fucking tumblr! 

I just made a lump sum of money from this new vanilla job I got working out of town. The gag is, with this new job I’d only really need to work 1-2 weeks out of the month and have the rest of the month off.

Soooooo I’m thinking of quitting my current job because my current job has been great, but it’s very hard on me physically. I ache and have to do a salt soak every night, and I’m so exhausted that most of my evenings are spent napping, running errands, and then bedtime. I’ve flaked on I don’t know how many people and feel just like months are slipping away from me. It’s time to GO.

I have new goals for this year, and the more I think about it, the more I would like to go the SGF route. But this is just a mini update. With the cash I made I’m now officially half way to my emergency savings goal. 

So I’m back!  I took an unannounced hiatus. After continuing to get comfortable, and gain weight and completely neglect anything sugar I’m on here again to regain motivation and get myself together.

I will say, in December I spent my time holed up with a young man who doesn’t make shit for money, (Ugh, I know I know) but whatever little he did make was spent on getting stuff for my apartment.

ANYWAYS-

I worked out for 2 hours this week and I’m back to drinking 80-90oz of water daily. I am NOT doing this for 2019 goals, I’m doing this because I want to quit my job this year.  If I can’t quit my job to start my business, then my more realistic goal is to go from full time to part time at my job in order to grow my business. I started my business plan in December, found a possible location, and all I have to do is make some calls to see if I can even set it in motion... If not I’ll only be slightly devastated, I have a back up plan business that is riskier but really what I’d rather do in my spare time anyways lol

Ugh, I’ve gained 10 pounds. I’ve got to get back in the gym. I do water fitness classes and it’s a great way to have an intense workout without fucking up your joints and being super sore the next day. I lost 20 lbs doing it and to see I’ve gained 10 back because I missed like 5 classes this month and neglected my diet in UNACCEPTABLE.

My skin looks amazing at the moment though. Haven’t reduced sugar intake (apparently lol) but I reduced red meat and dairy and got my chemical peel and post peel products so this past month my skin has cleared up soooo much.

Going to watch Anfisa’s (YES, 90 Day Fiance Anfisa!) Youtube channel for workout/fitness inspo. Her body is lean and toned asf.  IDEALLY I want to look like Bria Myles. She’s such a BABEEEEEEEE.

Life’s been crazy, as is everyone’s. Been working wild hours at my vanilla job, waking up extra early to do cardio and getting home mad late because family needs me after work due to a huge event that’s happened...

But everyone probably wants to know what’s up with me and the POT and to be honest;

n o t h i n g.

I think the only thing I’ll be able to use him for is rinsing. He doesn’t seem like a threat, is very chill and treats the waiters/waitresses exceptionally well. But at the same time, on the second date I was very clear about needing financial assistance, and he was like, “Oh I thought you just wanted to travel internationally, I believe in funding life experiences...maybe we can come to some sort of arrangement we can agree on”.

Then proceeded to say, “But I do have my own expenses and I have had two divorces-” and blah blah blah I was like ew lol I need your $$$$ not excuses. He hasn’t mentioned sex at all, and always wants me to try everything on the menu so I was really excited because he wasn’t showing me the tumblr sugar daddy salt “red flags”.

Won’t go out with him again unless he starts talking numbers.  The two dates were divine but I gotta keep moving.

I’ve been researching places to go to freestyle in my city anddddddd since I FINALLY have a basic wardrobe that’s winter friendly I’m extremely excited to get out there!!!! I need to brush up on my free-styling posts I have saved on here lol

I’ve been waiting on my last check stub for 2 weeks to verify my income and since then, all of the apartments have been filled except for ONE UNIT. 

(At first there were a few, and the Unit I wanted was upstairs and now all that’s left is downstairs but beggars can’t be choosers lmao)