to my trans siblings:
donāt be stuck in the idea that only another trans person can love you the right way. preferences are okay, everyone has them, but you can be in a really terrible and abusive relationship if your mindset is set on āno one else will ever love me this wayā because you think you can only be truly appreciated intimately by someone who is also trans.
this goes for a lot of other kinds of mindsets, really any sort of āno on else can love me like thisā mentality, but this is a specific kind of mindset i think a lot of trans people may possess. i did too before, because itās an easy concept to internalize considering many cis people inherently wonāt understand that very important aspect of you as a person.
but know that, if itās the right person, trans or not, you will be loved because they will fight to love you.
















