I hope you don't change after you have the surgery. I hope you don't become stuck up. Don't lose that weight and start acting brand new. Don't lose the weight and forget about me. I can't be the only person getting these statements.... My first thought is to say "of course I am not going to change." After taking some time and thinking it over, is change really bad? Isn't that what life is about; always changing and evolving into a better person. Hopefully, your current mindset isn't the same from when you were in first grade. Right? I would hope that you've changed in many aspects of your life since then. So, is it really a bad thing to change? With that being said, you damn right I will change. I pray to God I change, grow and evolve. I will use this tool to press a reset on my life. I pray that the person that I evolve to be is a strong, dream chasing woman of color, that will never allow anyone to stop her from her dreams again. It is one change that I am nervous about. The change in other people. As August 30th approaches, I try to mentally prepare myself for this big change. However, I am not sure how everyone around me is going to react to this process. I spent some time reaching out to people who have had WLS impact relationships. I had the pleasure of speaking to a lovely lady who informed me,after 10 years of marriage ,her husband filed for a divorce because he felt she changed. Another person, best friend for 17 years fell out because she "changed" It's evident that you are going to change. However the people around you have to be secure enough in themselves to acknowledge that you will change for the good. Let's talk about it! Have you lost a friendship over WLS? Do you think insecurities played a roll? Stay Lovely, Love Chrys β€οΈ
