#love this guy...

anonymous wrote: 1, 9, & 10 (from romance & relationship headcanons ; accepting.) -> for jordan.

1. what is your muse's sexual/romantic orientation?

okay, so, basically, up until jordan was 26, he thought he was bisexual. his only other relationship has been with a cis woman, and he, well, he liked nat well enough that he assumed it had to be love. he didn't mind being around her, and as a teenager, he'd never had much tolerance for other people, so .. he had to be into her, right ?? they kissed, went on dates, had sex, everything was nice enough. nothing to write home about, and jordan really thought all the songs, poems, books, and everything else about love and sex were greatly exaggerating the hype. it wasn't bad by any means, and he thought marrying her would be okay enough, but. everything was a bit muted. nothing really felt the way he thought love should probably feel, but maybe he was just broken. then ... he met sasha. it's a whole long thing about having his first crush ever at 26 and realizing just thinking about sasha looking at him made him feel giddier than anything ever had, and a few crises about never feeling like this before, but eventually jordan realized he was just ... gay. i could talk about this for ages, honestly, because it's such a change for him. he knew he found masculine people attractive, but often confused it for gender envy and has mostly been with women (which, generally, was an extremely underwhelming experience for him). but ... yeah, he's just, like, super gay. like mega gay. there was a lot of daydreaming and fantasizing he almost died from embarrassment over before they started dating.

9. is your muse monogamous or polyamorous? would they be interested in a polyamorous relationship?

he's strictly monogamous, and would never consider polyamorous relationships. he doesn't share.

10. has your muse ever been cheated on? would they ever cheat on their partner(s)?