What would be the difference between someone who has Lilith conjuct ascendant vs someone who has Lilith conjuct sun. They're described as the same but surely that must be wrong?
The sun is your identity. It is your ego, your sense of self, who you truly are at the essence of your soul. The ascendant is your influence interacting with others, how others perceive you, your actions, movements. The ascendant is the way you were raised, how you look and the mask you put on to interact.
Lilith conjunct your sun would mean there is something about you soul wise that is different from the norm. Something about you deep down is non-traditional, or taboo . It could be your sexuality, or your real personality. Your fundamental essence is taboo in some way, you ARE a Lilith.
Lilith conjunct your ascendant is other people see YOU as non traditional through your actions, demeanor, appearance. You face experiences where you are shamed for your differences. The aspect gives you a magnetism that attracts people. People project onto you without you doing much. Like you could walk into a room and a bunch of people might assume a bunch of things about you. You LOOK like a Lilith
Both are out of your control and attached to your identity which is why they may be similar interpretations.
