#lilith asks

Please don’t worry so much about bad things, generally that’s the-- goal for lilith, is to acknowledge the darker side of things. The main function is to understand parts of us that is harder to control, understand or bring under our reigns. Thus, understanding that Lilith (any placements, all signs/houses) will essentially be talking about things that we should be ‘aware’ about is probably the-- first step?? 💕

There’s no comparing ‘oh this Lilith in 3rd is better than Lilith in 10th’ because both is pointing out the functions of Lilith. No one suffers more or less than others, because essentially we all suffer and we can’t live in other people’s experience (and therefore don’t judge others) is important too 💕💕

Also it’s good to acknowledge that there are different Liliths-- this might be of interest to you? 💕💕💕

Anyways, so Lilith in 10th. I’m sure you’ve heard about the doom and gloom, be aware of the public’s perception and manipulation of power, control-issues already. That should be acknowledged 💕💕 So I’m doing it now!

The thing about Lilith is that it can be used to our advantage, not like-- ‘oooh im gonna be a seductress and sleep with authorities even though I hate men’ or something, but more like personal power. Conscious use of your power and how you’re using it, it’s good to be aware of the control stuff because that’s the main key here.

I think uh.... the first thing is understanding Lilith right? If someone has Lilith in 10th, it’s good to acknowledge their perspective on authorities, their experience with it, their dominant parental figure, and their public/work experience. If there are--- extreme views on something, or dissatisfaction with it, it can get amplified by this Lilith.

It’s ‘darker’ and that can be-- acknowledged by the public, misconstrued or overblown beyond what we actually say. Understanding our own perspective first helps, and then we do damage control.

Think of this as a ‘femme fatale’ thing?? Maybe?? Is that term even good?? I don’t know the connotations to it anymore (whether it’s good or bad) but self-empowerment is the key here. Note that sometimes Lilith can make us isolated from others bc of our experience with it, even if we are ‘with the masses’ on a subject-- there’s a likely possibility that it’ll be picked out or exposed to the public, used as a scrape goat (worst case scenario). So it’s important to acknowledge our own perspective, knowing ourselves outside of that and then dealing with the damage control in a way that’s healthy for us too.

Really because the-- nature of Lilith, it’s hard to talk about ‘positive’ things especially without the sign in question? I’d say if you don’t want to hear bad things, maybe perhaps look at other placements in your chart instead. When you can acknowledge or take in the lessons of Lilith-- because it’s essentially showing us where we get ‘Lilith’ on certain things, then come back and learn about it then 💕💕💕  

It’s-- unfortunately not all about sex and stuff all the time, Lilith is quite useful for self-knowledge and acknowledging where your sex-appeal lies too of course. But it can also show us areas where we seek control or manipulation of others, so that’s just--- Lilith, and nothing personal towards you or your placements, y know? It’s jus Lilith 💕💕