#life hack

Have you ever had a knot or tangle in a metal chain? Especially the very fine ones, it can be impossible to work them out with your fingers.

My friends, all you need is a thumbtack. In a pinch, a toothpick, needle, or any fine thin stick will do. I have never been defeated by a knot with a thumbtack in hand.

You stick the pointy end into the trickiest part of the knot and slowly just work it in. The knot loosens around it, and I’ve used this metaphor for acupuncture too because it’s the same principle to me.

This is honestly the ONLY post you need for thought transmission because it includes different types of people: strangers, people I haven’t spoken to in forever, friends, my boyfriend, family, even celebrities. I did ALL of these in ONE day.

The thought transmission queen is back. I got bored in class and since it's my favorite thing to do, I played around with it again. Treat this as a gift because I've been so busy lately and barely posting!

Got my classmate to text me while I was literally watching him! (Proof that checking the "3D" doesn't matter, it FOLLOWS YOU!)

I got bored and decided to do thought transmission with a random person in class whom I don't really chat on messenger with. Then, I noticed a friend who's sitting at the front row of our Media Law class, listening attentively, and this class was strictly no phones allowed. So I guess, that's my circumstance lol. All I affirmed was "(His name) chatted me." "(His name) is chatting me now." And just basically saturating my mind about the thought that he is chatting me. I then stopped saturating because I wanted to listen to my professor again. But every time I would think of it, I would either repeat my affirmations or reminding myself that "It's already done." I made myself watch the "3D" and honestly, it lowkey made me hesitate because he was just listening to our professor. I had some doubts like "Why would he even do that? We don't even chat." But then I shrugged it off and returned to the fact that "Nope. He is chatting me. No matter what happens, he will chat me." And then, immediately after that, he looked back and signaled me to check my phone because he wants to tell me something. I checked my phone, he chatted me.

2. My best friend who NEVER wears pink, wore pink! (Proof that never is impossible. THIS IS YOUR REALITY!) Okay so she just loves wearing dark colors and swore that she would never wear light colors since it's just not her vibe and she feels weird about it. I guess, that's my circumstance lol. So I decided to choose a color that she hates vividly which is pink. And since we haven't really seen her wearing that color, I was curious what she would look like and so, I decided. "She'll wear pink." "(Her name) is wearing pink." She did! Besides our uniform, she wore a pink cardigan. We also got free ice creams which was a bonus too!!

3. A relative of mine quitted his 44 years of smoking addiction! (Proof that time doesn't matter and you don't need to talk to the person. TALK TO THEM IN YOUR HEAD. THEY RECEIVE IT! )

While I was heading home, our family’s groupchat were flooding messages about this certain relative whom they’ve been concerned about. They’re so worried on the fact that this relative’s health issues are getting worse all because of his smoking addiction. They’re losing hope since all they could remember and know is that he has been addicted to smoking all his life. I guess that’s my circumstance lol. In that moment, I knew I should do something about it so I affirmed: “He is clean and stopped smoking.” “He doesn’t smoke anymore.” Within the day, he posted. He is finally done and started his new chapter.

4. My man did all the things I affirmed! (Proof that they instantly receive your thoughts. It’s two ways. You’re the creator here. You call the shots. If you say they miss you, they really do. It’s not some fake shit. It’s the truth.)

With all the things we went through, I am 100% sure that once you’ve thought of them, they’re thinking of you as well. We would always have those moments and instantly tell each other about that. Everything we think about someone, they 100% instantly receive it. For my man, he says the exact words and does the exact thing that I affirm, all the damn time in real time. He’s a very hard working and busy man at his work. I guess that’s my circumstance lol. Since I got home early, I wanted him to come to my place. “(His name) went to my dorm.” “He loves going to my dorm.” “He wants to go to my dorm.” All of a sudden, he chatted me saying he’ll go to me since “out of nowhere,” they were asked to leave the office early. And we all know that in the law, there’s no such as coincidence.

Since we’re also talking about romantic SP, I also just want to say that I do love haunting my man with my affirmations. I’ve been getting lots of DMs on what I affirm but I’m being for real, I always change my affirmations but one thing’s for sure, it’s always in my favor. So I would go from “(His name) is so obsessed with me.” to “(His name) is madly inlove with me.” Hence why he would always tell me he can’t stop thinking about me and that all he could think about is me. So yes, you don’t have to stick with one affirmation. Just stick with one story.

Besides him going to my dorm, I also manifested him saying “I miss you” to me & him bringing me flowers + medicines. All I affirmed: “He misses me so much.” “He always chats me “I miss you”” and with the flowers and medicines “He bought me flowers and medicines.” Honestly, LOASS is self explanatory. It’s really just that…. simple.

5. A famous celebrity liked my IG story! (Proof that you don’t need to believe, force an emotion, and you don’t have to know each other lol. Thought transmission works for everyone. You are the creator. Thought transmit them in your favor. )

This celebrity came to mind since my friend made them a trend recently. Since I really want to dive deep into different ways on how to prove that thought transmission is real and instant, I specifically wanted a different thing from them which is a like on my story. Not a follow, just a random like on my story. Now how tf would a stranger and even a famous celebrity who doesn’t even follow you like your story? I guess that’s my circumstance lol. I affirmed "They liked my story." What? "They liked my story." But how- "They liked my story." They liked my story.

Did I believe it? Hell no. Did I force an emotion? Hell no. All I did was stick in one story. 6. Someone whom I haven't spoken to since 2019 reached out and sent me a long message! (Proof that distance, time, emotions, 3D does not matter. Nothing really matters. What matters is what you want. Decide. You are the creator here. You control everything and everyone.)

Thought transmission is real and instant. There's no coincidence at all. I affirmed "They chatted me." "They sent me a long message." They instantly received it and responded. Since it's two way, I also felt them wanting to chat me.

You probably already know a lot of this, like factually and as vibes. Most women do. But sometimes it’s just good to say stuff out loud and make sure we're not memory-holing what should be top of mind.

The short answer for what counts is: a lot more than you’ve been led to believe.

So here’s a by no means exhaustive list of things that tend to fester and creep on you in the dreaded fog of "subtle" harassment at work.

1. The Creepy Client You’re Expected to Smile At It’s not always your boss. It can be a customer, a donor, or a VIP investor who says the gross stuff. And if your job depends on keeping them happy, management often looks the other way.

2. The “Jokes” That Aren’t Jokes They’ll call it “banter.” But if it makes you feel small, singled out, or sexualised, it’s not comedy. It’s cover.

3. The Mentor Who Gets Personal When someone who’s supposed to help you grow starts steering conversations to your dating life, your looks, or their “crush,” that's a classic grooming protocol.

4. The Person Who Touches Everyone - Except They Don’t! Watch for the ones who say “I’m just a hugger” but somehow only hug the cute interns. That’s calculation, not 'friendly' culture.

5. The After-Work Messages That Escalate Starts professional. Gets weird. Maybe it’s “😉” after your presentation. Maybe it’s full-blown flirting on Instagram. Either way, it’s not harmless just because it’s happening after 5 p.m.

6. The Retaliation You Can’t Prove You get left off the next project. Your hours get cut. You’re not sure if it’s connected to the way you handled someone’s advances, but… yeah, it probably is.

7. The Exclusion Because You Didn’t “Play Along” You’re suddenly not invited to team lunches. Or they say you’re “hard to vibe with.” Translation: you didn’t laugh when the jokes got gross.

8. The Comments Disguised As Compliments “You look great in that dress” hits different when it’s from someone evaluating your performance. Especially if it comes with a glance you wish you could unsee.

9. The “Nice Guy” Who Gets Weird When You’re Not Into It He was helpful, until you didn’t flirt back. Now he’s cold, nitpicky, maybe even sabotaging your work. No tantrum, just power games.

10. The Stuff That Happens Off the Clock but Still Counts Work party groping. Drunk conference creeps. Inappropriate texts on your day off. Just because it’s not technically at work doesn’t mean it won’t impact your job.

A lot of times if it’s not explicit, it sadly just doesn’t count to those in power. But guaranteed, you’ll count it, and you'll carry it. And probably learn how to laugh about it without sounding bitter. Until you can't and won't

Just know you’re not imagining it and you’re not wrong for feeling off. And definitely not the first one to think about changing your desk, your shift, or your entire career just to get away from it.

It’s not okay.