#libra lady

Lots of pointed (focused) energy, combative in a verbal and passive way, very defensive, very possessive. Can be incredible, so generous, thoughtful, fair, and ardent, when she finally feels secure in a settled relationship, but will she ever allow herself to relax and trust enough to allow true love to blossom? That's the million dollar question.

Hi sweetie! This lady is very relationship-focused, very romantic. I bet she could get into reading or even writing romances.

In her adulthood she's likely to be well-read and clever, however, how soon she develops this depends on the circumstances of her upbringing, and a lot depends on Mars placement.

There's a version of her life in which she's actually a bubbly cheerleader or gymnast type. Athletics could be important to her. She's likely to be attracted to cliques, teams, and group activities. She's a valuable and amiable team player and well-liked. Depending on Mars and Saturn placement, she could be a serious athlete.

Whatever her goals are, she pursues with enthusiasm, and prefers to bounce ideas off of others and collaborate.

She's likely to have ADD or similar symptoms and traits. Shes likely to start projects or develop various random interests and not follow through. School may be difficult for this reason and being part of a group really helps keep her on track and focused. For this reason, some people may see her as silly, air-headed or superficial, when she is actually deep, thoughtful, intelligent, loyal, and a great study-buddy. (House placements will affect image and public perception.)

She takes friendships and romantic relationships very seriously and is probably a good communicator, although she interrupts. She has firm rules and expectations for her relationships. Her love language is definitely words of affirmation. In love she is attracted to people who are passionate, charming, polished, educated, and clever. Her relationships are likely to be long-lasting-- probably longer than they should be, since she tries to fix and hold on to every relationship. She does not handle breakups well, at all, initially, but can use them to catalyze her to further growth and transformation.

Speaking of which, you know who this gal kind of reminds me of? Elle Woods from Legally Blonde.

Aww thank you!! 😊💕

This woman is really relationship-oriented. Both her sun and moon are ruled by her Venus in Scorpio. I'm interested to know if her moon and Venus, which are in opposite signs, are actually in opposition.

Her primary focus in the world is security and stability, which she seems to find both through relationships and through material acquisition. Financial stability is important to her, and it may be hard for her to trust people. She lets people in very slowly.

If you're interested in her, make sure you are always 100% honest and forthright as she will tolerate nothing less. Once she's committed, she's likely to be quite loyal, trustworthy, faithful, grounded (realistic) and devoted, herself.

She struggles with balancing career (or material acquisition-- her "career" could be as a sugar baby!) and relationships, and if she has a hard time opening up about her true feelings, fears, insecurities and desires, she may simply throw herself back into that material focus instead.

So basically there is a danger of accepting and seeking "love" through *things* and material and financial security, or using financial security as a substitute for emotional intimacy.

She needs to learn to give *herself* what she needs so that her relationships can exist to enhance her life and not form the foundation of her security-- which would leave her feeling betrayed, undervalued and disappointed.