#libra compatibility

It’s pattern. It’s prophecy....When the same zodiac signs keep appearing — as friends, lovers, enemies, mirrors — it's the universe in disguise.

🌸loving to go out as a couple to socialize

🌸knowing damn well they turn heads when they’re out and loving every second of it

🌸leo moons are hard to tie down because they either love being alone or with other people on a noncommittal way, but if any sign could, it would be a Libra moon

🌸Libra moons need fairness and equality, and while Leo moons may struggle with self-centeredness, they will honor the Libras needs

🌸both are super romantic, Leo in a grandiose way and Libra in a beautiful way

🌸like holly and paul from breakfast at Tiffany’s

Warning- this is dealing only with stereotypes, obviously each person is super individual, has different qualities and different natal chart placements, not to mention transits and progressions also play a role in what their personality is currently like.

Aries - 4/10 - tbh I've always thought Aries guys were super charming, hot guys with Nick Miller-like anger management issues, turn me on. I only put 4/10 because I feel the stereotypical Aries is too cool for me. Maybe it's my Aries 5th house talking but I've always thought Aries suns would be the most compatible with me, personality-wise.

Taurus - 2/10 - Taurus guys are super cute even if they're super stubborn as well and if they have a possessive steak.

Gemini - 6/10 - I don't really understand what's going on in the mind of a Gemini guy, it's a bit daunting.

Cancer - 4/10 - they're nice guys, I've dated more Cancer guys than any other zodiac sign but they do have a dark side that creeps me out.

Leo - 9/10 - Leo guys trigger me so much. The only guy I've ever loved was Leo and we broke each other because of ego issues, basically no one was willing to stomp their own ego in order to get into a relationship. I'm more mature now but still the idea of dating a Leo is super intimidating. I'm a creature of darkness and they're blazing golden glory and I feel like I'd have to drag myself out of the miry deep and meet him in the middle (if he is also mature and we don't end up repeating my previous almost-relationship with the other Leo guy). I'm only putting 9/10 because thankfully I'm not in love with a Leo right now, if I was, I'd be freaking out of my mind by now.

Virgo - 2/10. Virgo guys are so adorable. They look critical, and they are critical thinkers but they have soft bellies. I'm only putting 2/10 because I've never dated a Virgo guy and I'm not sure how it would end. I'm not sure we'd mesh together romantically.

Libra - 1/10. I feel I know Libra's personality pretty well, the problem is I'm not sure I want to date someone who has the same negative qualities as me - i.e. laziness, people-pleasing, fear of confrontations, general detachment, fear of intimacy and commitment

Scorpio - 4/10. Dating a Scorpio would be like, the most natural thing in the world. It's like being a traveler in a new country and meeting someone who speaks the same language as you. I've noticed that Scorpios and I get each other on like, a soul level. I'm not sure I want to see my jealous and vengeful side mirrored back at me, I already experienced it once, would not recommend it.

I honestly don't have a lot of thoughts for the final four signs, sorry, they were just never on my radar.

Sagittarius - 3/10. They're weird and can't control their emotions which kinda gives me second-hand embarrassment at times.

Capricorn - 2/10. I've never really connected with a Capricorn guy. Many Scorpio ladies adore them but here's where my Libra sun becomes apparent probably. Have a dark side.

Aquarius - 3/10. I never know what they think, similar to Gemini guys. They're a bit too detached even for my standards. They also have a dark side that I'm not sure I want to discover.

LIBRA + ARIES (MARCH 21 - APRIL 19) ♥♥♥♥ You're opposite signs who can match up well, but you sometimes baffle one another, too. Aries rules the self and Libra rules relationships. Libra is a lover; Aries is a fighter. Your polar extremes can be a great complement if you borrow what the other does best. Rash, temperamental Aries could stand to give others the benefit of the doubt, to look before leaping—something the wise Judge does well. Languid, overly accommodating Libra can learn to speak up, say no, and take action instead of pondering the possible consequences for a year. Although your differences can be irritating, they also make you a well-rounded couple if you play them right. When Aries needs to rant, patient Libra offers uninterrupted listening, capped with sage, sensible feedback. In return, Aries helps Libra overcome a mortal fear of conflict, teaching this sign how to stand up for his rights. As parents, or even business partners, you play the good cop/bad cop routine like seasoned pros. Just be willing to adjust your internal thermostats as needed. Hotheaded Aries will need to dial down the anger, lest all that concentrated emotion throw Libra's scales off balance. Erudite Libra will need to descend from that lofty, cultured perch and take a bold risk. (No, Aries does NOT consider ten years a reasonable time to wait for an engagement ring—and never will.) Compromise is essential for you to find a rhythm.

LIBRA + TAURUS (APRIL 20 - MAY 20) Your signs are both ruled by Venus, but your disparate elements prevent this from being an ideal match. Taurus is a fixed Earth sign who builds his castle by the sweat of his brow, then lords over its inhabitants. Libra is cardinal Air, a Queen bee who buzzes around, ruling the hive without doing the drone-work. You both want to be in charge, but your clashing leadership styles create a patchwork parliament that can't agree on anything. Taurus is planted on terra firma, and Libra lives in the clouds. Of course, if the Bull is content to be the provider while Libra dresses up and plays charming host, then this can work. You're certainly an attractive pair of aesthetes, and you share high-end tastes in fashion, décor, food and all the Venusian pleasures. Shameless snobbery is a shared affliction, but neither of you cares to be cured. You love to talk about art, literature, politics, everything under the sun—though Taurus may find Libra's values superficial, and moderate Libra will take offense to the Bull's heavy handed opinions. At least your sexual attraction is strong, and that will take you far enough. However, conflict-avoiding Libra will need to build up some backbone to avoid being steamrolled by dominating Taurus. The Bull will need to turn down the volume, and Libra must get better at addressing issues head on, rather than letting them fester.

LIBRA + GEMINI (MAY 21 - JUNE 20) ♥♥♥♥ You're compatible Air signs with silver tongues and gilded wings, a magical match indeed. Libra is a pretty pixie and Gemini is an impish sprite. Your meeting rouses the fairies and gnomes, stirring up mischief in your midst. You love to mingle and schmooze, and you'll chatter like two little tree monkeys, gabbing a mile a minute. But will the breathless excitement last? Getting past the superficial romance stage is the challenge. You're both so indecisive that nailing down a commitment is like catching moonbeams in a jar. That said, the illusionary quality of your relationship is a magic you both enjoy. It's when life becomes too real that you vanish in a pinch of enchanted dust. To make this last, you'll need to dip your toes into the murky morass of intimacy, then learn to swim. Money can become an issue between you, particularly the way you spend it. Gemini is ruled by intellectual Mercury, and would rather invest in college degrees, a film collection, enriching travel. Libra is governed by beauty and pleasure-loving Venus, and splashes out on art, couture, custom suits, spas. You'll need separate wings for Gemini's books and Libra's handbag or shoe collection. You have different approaches to romance, too. Libra loves a lengthy courtship with all the trimmings, but Gemini bristles at picking up too many tabs, especially with Libra's extravagant taste. You'll probably need to keep separate accounts to avoid meddling in each other's purchase habits. Cut up the credit cards, too—many happy relationships can be destroyed by debt. Don't let that happen to you.

LIBRA + CANCER (JUNE 21 - JULY 22) You're a sweet, romantic couple, but not always a perfect match. On the upside, Cancer is ruled by the caring Moon and Libra by romantic Venus, casting a tender glow on this love affair. With your flair for color, style and objets d'art, you could open an interior design business (your home may in fact resemble an Architectural Digest spread). Now, the challenge: Cancer is a deeply emotional Water sign whose moods fluctuate like the tides. Libra is a social Air sign who prefers to happy-dance through the daisies. Between the Crab's fatalism and Libra's denial, nobody has a strong grip on reality. Better keep a few grounded Earth sign friends on speed dial when you lose perspective. Failing that, you'll need to adapt to each other's opposing natures. Like a stone skipping across the water's surface, Libra averts the plunging depths of Cancer's inconsolable undertows and cloying neediness. Yet, avoidance is futile, since it only upsets the Crab to be ignored. Libra should learn that a hug, flowers and an apology (however undeserved) pave the quickest path to peace. Not that Libra doesn't have his own powerful undercurrent: when those scales tips out of balance, he can escalate a minor breakdown into a Code Orange catastrophe. Admit it: you're both big babies at times. For long-term success, find activities you both enjoy: travel, language classes, dancing, dinner parties. You're gracious hosts and culturally literate people with lots to talk about. Get out and savor life together.

LIBRA + LEO (JULY 23 - AUGUST 22) ♥♥♥♥ You're a pretty pair, attracted to the other's good looks and charm. The courtship phase has all your favorite trimmings: massive bouquets delivered to your office, iPod mixes of your favorite angsty love songs, sonnets inspired by your affection. Leo and Libra are two of the zodiac's most romantic signs, and you love everything to be pleasant and harmonious on the surface. The challenge comes when it's time to get real. Rather than show your unpleasant humanity, you coat issues in saccharine, avoiding touchy topics to keep the happy vibes flowing. However, the artificial sweetness soon leaves a bitter aftertaste, especially for Leo. The Lion is a Fire sign, with a much more passionate disposition than cooler Air-sign Libra. Leo is pushy, Libra procrastinates, and you can get caught in a dance of anger as a result. When truly upset, the Lion roars. Libra can bellow right back, but he's more likely to withhold attention, the thing that Leo most craves. Leo's demands for affection, praise and validation can drain Libra after a while. Dramatic highs and lows tip Libra's scales off balance, inciting a passive-aggressive backlash. It starts with locked doors and escalates into Internet porn or even affairs if Leo doesn't get the hint. You may be better off as friends if you can't get beyond this impasse.

LIBRA + VIRGO (AUGUST 23 - SEPTEMBER 22) You're next-door-neighbor signs who can learn a thing or two from each other. Virgo is a cautious Earth sign who plans for the worst and prays for the best. Air-sign Libra not only expects the best, he demands it—and thus, he usually gets it. In stressful times, Libra's charm and balanced perspective is a breath of fresh air for anxious Virgo. The Virgin is ruled by mentally-stimulating Mercury, and his mind goes a mile a minute. Libra's ruler is Venus, the goddess of beauty, love and pleasure. Like a gentle lullaby, Libra smoothes the rough spots, helping Virgo relax and trust that everything will be okay. While this may be an illusion, it still has a hypnotic effect on Virgo. Socially, you mix well. You both enjoy arts and culture, and you'll never be at a loss for date ideas: museum openings, concerts, readings. You're also a fastidious pair—you'll have the cleanest house on the block if it's up to Virgo, and the most tastefully decorated home if Libra has a say. The one dynamic to beware: Virgo is the zodiac's helper and Libra is its pampered diva. This can easily turn into a master-and-servant scenario, with Libra feigning helplessness and Virgo scrambling to save him. Like Persephone eating the pomegranate seeds that doomed her to Hades, Virgo must be careful not to swallow Libra's intoxicating tales and sob stories.

LIBRA + LIBRA (SEPTEMBER 23 - OCTOBER 22) This perfectly pleasant combination works best when one Libra is at least ten years older than the other, like Librans Catherine Zeta-Jones and Michael Douglas. That way, it's clear how to divide up the roles. One of you has to be the primary decision-maker, after all—no easy feat with two sets of vacillating Scales. Heck, you lapse into analysis-paralysis when the grocery checker asks, "Paper or plastic?" Because of this, it can take time for your signs to gel—that is, if the connection doesn't taper off before the first date. (Hint: waiting three days to ask each other out is acceptable. Three years? A little long.) Procrastination can be your downfall, as can terminal politesse. At all costs, you should have separate vanities and dressing rooms, as you both like to primp and preen. Zeta-Jones herself once declared individual bathrooms the secret to a successful marriage. Well, for two Libras, non-adjoining sinks and mirrors might just make it into your wedding vows. Once you do come together as a couple, your loyalty to one another is fierce. You make a cunning tag team who should go into sales together. One lash-batting Libra oozes charm, wrapping your prey around a manicured finger; the other swoops in like a hawk for the kill. Later, you'll divvy the spoils into equal portions and celebrate in lavish, Bonnie and Clyde style.

LIBRA + SCORPIO (OCTOBER 23 - NOVEMBER 21) Libra is light and Scorpio rules darkness, but your searing sexual chemistry blazes through borders. As a couple, you're quick to bed and slow to wed. In many ways, the long prenuptial pas de deux is a mutual choice. Romantic Libra loves an extended courtship—long dinners, vacations and lavish gifts. Shrewd, suspicious Scorpio will subject Libra to a battery of character tests, gauging whether Libra can be trusted. Libra is an incurable dilettante whose surface skimming can feel lightweight beside Scorpio's obsessive, detail-focused nature. Because your temperaments are so different, your initial phase can be fraught with misunderstandings. Libra is an outgoing butterfly and an unrepentant flirt, provoking Scorpio's jealousy at every turn. Possessive Scorpio prefers passionate bedside confidentials to paparazzi and parties, but Libra quickly feels smothered without a social scene. To say you'll need compromise is an understatement. Combine your strengths, though, and you can also make a powerful society couple—with Scorpio dominating the world from behind the scenes, and Libra presiding as its lovely, doe-eyed diplomat.

LIBRA + SAGITTARIUS (NOVEMBER 22 - DECEMBER 21) You're fast friends who make each other laugh, sharing a sharp, sarcastic wit. People watching is your favorite pastime, and you can amuse each other with clever observations all day. Romantic Libra brings poetry and flowers to Sag's gritty, profanity-strewn world, and active Sagittarius gets Libra's nose out of the rosebush. Still, your different paces could cause friction. Languid Libra likes to take everything slow, weighing and measuring possibilities on those iconic Scales before acting. Naturally, this frustrates impetuous Sag's text-message attention span. The Archer prefers to leap before looking, relying on luck and goodwill to save the day. Such gambling and lack of security throws Libra's delicate constitution into a tizzy. Sagittarius finds Libra's champagne tastes too snobbish and materialistic—why pay over $20 for anything you can get at a thrift shop or make yourself? Sagittarius' half-baked ideas and churlish outbursts rain public embarrassment on Libra's carefully cultivated rep. When Libra plays damsel or dude in distress, independent Sag flees instead of saving the day. So why stay together? At the end of the day, your friendship remains solid. There's no conflict you can't talk through after a time-out. Although you may drift in and out of platonic feelings, you genuinely care for each other—and that speaks volumes.

LIBRA + CAPRICORN (DECEMBER 22 - JANUARY 19) Capricorn is the provider sign, forever seeking a mate in need of financial backing. Libra is a vain dilettante who's happy to play muse to an Earthy benefactor. You have your oft-irreconcilable differences, yet you stay together all the same. In many ways, you have what the other needs. Libra is a master of social graces with a billion air-kissed "friends." Capricorn can be an antisocial grumble-puss who cleaves to childhood cronies and family. Libra spends on impulsive pleasures; Capricorn plans for tomorrow. Battles can be brutal. You're both convinced of your natural superiority; your haughty contretemps and ego showdowns merit a Bravo series. Of course, antisocial Capricorn would never allow cameras into the estate, while Libra would whip together a stylist, understudy and five-star craft services. Therein lies the difference: your values. Not an easy hurdle to scale, even for a determined Goat or a patient Judge. A successful relationship will require much compromise. The fawning affection romantic Libra craves will be in short order. Capricorn shows love through acts of service and loyalty, not pandering. Libra must learn to accept love in a less-adorned package, and trade a few parties for cozy nights in. Capricorn must exit the cave to meet new people, play host and smile once a season. You can do it—but will you be happy? That's the question.

LIBRA + AQUARIUS (JANUARY 20 - FEBRUARY 18) ♥♥♥♥ You're one of the zodiac's easiest matches: just two carefree Air signs breezing through life with a full roster of friends, travels and adventures. Together, it's twice the fun. Although Libra is more the dashing diva/dandy and Aquarius the quirky Bohemian, your sunny social dispositions pair well. Every stranger is greeted by your hail-fellow-well-met embrace, and you collect friends wherever you go. Indeed, you may meet while chatting at the cheese counter, lounging poolside on the Riviera, or in a dog park scene reminiscent of an Ephron rom-com (picture Aquarius' retriever pouncing on Libra's dainty teacup terrier—what a metaphor). Your conversational chemistry guarantees a great first date, even if the prevailing vibe is platonic. If you hit it off, you'll host lavish parties with an eclectic mix of Aquarius' artsy, leftist comrades and Libra's highbrow circle, bringing them all together with panache. Caution: your casual natures can impede intimacy. In private, you can both be moody, making pouty, indirect plays for affection and sex. Aquarius is also far less romantic than Libra, at least in the traditional sense. That humanitarian bent will clash with Libra's caviar wishes (animal cruelty!) and fondness of bling (blood diamonds!). Most days, you take those differences in stride. Having a lifelong playmate is worth it.

Cardinal & Cardinal

Both signs are good at starting fresh schemes; Both signs have initiative and passion. When they know what they want, they just go for it!

They are both good at starting things, but set about finishing them in different ways. They get along much better when they accept each other’s well defined role in the partnership. As long as both are satisfied with their roles, their partnership works well and they almost always achieve the desired results.

Fixed & Fixed

Both signs could work hard towards their common ends. Any plans they have, they run them to completion to get the desired results. Both partners are stubborn and unrelenting. They are both determined and set on their goals. Thus both partners devote themselves to their relationship.

However, if they have difference of ideas, they would frequently be arguing with each other. They both won’t likely change their opinion, as that goes against their nature.

If both signs realize that cooperation is better than competition, they would work together.

One may give the other the impetus and encouragement to put their ideas into practice, rather than keep them in

Mutable & Mutable

They could form an awesome team with neither sign attempting to take charge. Neither partner feels the need to dominate the relationship.

On their combined ventures, one might tire easily, especially if they lose their interest, and then the\ other too would move on.

Both signs are persistent, and love to see the success of their endeavors.

Both signs want to keep moving from one pursuit to another, as their feelings and desires command. They help and motivate each other, keeping their partnership filled with innovation and excitement. Arguments are very scarce in their relationship, and any that occur are easily resolved.

Cardinal & Fixed

This is known as the King and General combination, where the Cardinals help to execute the general direction decided on by the Fixed signs.  Fixed Signs have immense staying power, and while Cardinal Signs struggle to complete their goals, they start them easily. Together, these two help one another both begin and complete their goals. Both Signs can be extremely stubborn, the Cardinal Sign is most likely to give in to their Fixed Sign partner. This is often because they don’t have the innate ability to dig their feet and refuse to move as Fixed Signs, and usually little patience as well. Additionally, Cardinal Signs like to show their partner that they are loved and losing arguments is often how they attempt to do so.

Cardinal & Mutable

While Cardinal Signs easily make the first move, Mutable Signs may be less comfortable being pinned down to any one position, thing, or person. Cardinal Signs, however, don’t demand a fixed stance from their partner, demanding understanding, loyalty, and allegiance instead. Mutable Signs readily give those things to their partner, as they are able to appreciate many different points of view. Mutable signs easily see both sides of any topic, and usually spend their time in the middle ground, which Cardinal Signs may find as a breach of the allegiance. Similarly, Mutable Signs often feel Cardinal Signs are often two bullheaded, and that things are too often “us verses them,” which doesn’t suit the objective Mutable nature. If they can come to understand these differences in function, and understand that they are, in fact, on the same team, then they can form a strong union.

Fixed & Mutable