๐๐ ด๐ ฐ๐ ณ โก๏ธ Let's talk Boss Level Boundaries โฌ๏ธ.
As an empath, I'll be honest, I had sh*t boundaries most of my life.
Remember, most empaths cultivate our skills by being born into families with piss poor boundaries. We learned to feel others' feelings, process & act on them, because our families were unwilling or unable to do so themselves.
Anticipating other's needs, kept us safe; or helped us to be valued where we wouldn't have been otherwise.
We learned to feel, carry, & hold other peoples' baggage, simply because they didn't want to.
In adulthood, many have kept these habits. Worse than that, we believed they were necessary, for us to be considered "good" people. This false belief is often reinforced, especially for women, "Lightworkers", &/or those working in service industries.
My loves, ignoring your feelings, denying them, deprioritizing yourSelf, or letting people walk all over you, DOES NOT A GOOD PERSON MAKE.
You are so much more than that. You mean so much more to others, & your efforts & empathies are able to travel farther, when you learn to Stop carrying Everything, Stand up for yourSelf, Speak & Live your truth...1st & foremost.
When you exude your airs of confidence, the world responds. One day, your boundaries will walk into the room before you do. Instead of scanning for energy (in anticipation & frankly trauma response), instead of having others pour their #energy all over you, you'll be able to stand tall, in your bubble โญ, & defend yourself when necessary.
Maybe we don't all do that as brazenly as Bette Porter ๐ฅฐ; but I assure you, one day, you'll be able to do this, & it won't feel so very foreign to you. Better than that, you'll be able to say what you need to, & not agonize over, or ruminate in guilt for it afterwards.
Its a process, but it can be done.
Work on your boundaries, your frequency, & your *own healing, & you'll see, others will start to respond, respect you & your spaces (online too), in ways you've yet to dream.
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๐ I also invite you to journal, meditate, or pray on how it will feel for your boundaries to be respected. Allow this feeling to wash over & into you, as you step into the realities where you are your own boundary boss.
๐ฅ Clip credits to @sho_theLword.
๐ Writing inspired by my & my clients' own ever-expanding boundaries, the wonderful works of @terricole author of the highly recommended #BoundaryBoss ๐, & the eternally amazing @thejenniferbeals // Bette Porter ๐ฅ, who continues to inspire the ๐๐ช๐ in me ๐ค.
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