@vonniu replied to your post: “@leopardprintthrow replied to your post: “I love my friend and I want...”:
it's okay to want to be important to someone?? obviously people can take that too far but like there's nothing inherently wrong with wanting to be someone's best friend lmao what is this reach
B... I must confess... I really like it when we hang out and I hope you like it as much as I do... it might be time for you to cut my toxic ass out of your life :///
@leopardprintthrow replied to your post: “@leopardprintthrow replied to your post: “I love my friend and I want...”:
Nooo no I'm sorry I didn't mean that as offence, I was reading that from personal experience of friends trying to control me
I mean... wanting to be close to someone isn’t abusive/manipulative. The want itself... isn’t bad. If someone becomes controlling about it or uses that to guilt trip you or like depend on you for everything... that’s one thing... but just wanting your fiends to like you back as much as you like them... isn’t.. inherently bad. Like... at all. Having people you like more than others and wanting your feelings reciprocated is really how most relationships work.
