(2/2) you see i've never been in the commentary side of the rpc so i never knew until i came across one of the psa's about her and honestly i don't wanna be seen as an enabler or someone who supports abuse and it's been giving me anxiety seeing how everyone's criticizing those around her even distantly. so i just need proof or whatever that her apology was bullshit so that i can stop feeling conflicted because if she's still being abusive to people there's no point to even think about it
well firstly, hearing that people have been hurt to and lied by her and abused by her should be reason enough, the proof is literally in the tags of the callout post from ppl who reblogged, and just from listening to people stories. but i guess here we go.
she posted an apology around the end of november or so ( i believe it’s still on elleswrites ) saying she was going to step back from the community. two weeks later, she joins a marauders era rp, one i was in actually that i linked an account from the PSA. then, not even a month later, she’s back in SEVERAL RPs. now, she’s made her own rp and after saying it was going to be ‘lowkey’ has multiple people promoting it and has a talk tag. here’s some more info on that. as well as apparently playing or having a stolen character on that rp. EDIT: here’s more info on the stolen character. ADDITIONAL EDIT: here’s more bs pertaining to this.
not only that but, if you guys notice on exile vilify’s main, on several other rps mains ( lonelygloryrpg, the other one she was in I don’t think she’s in anymore but I have screencaps ), she has her name as megan with the age 23. she’s 22 and it states so on her blog. in the rp world, that kind of shit is SO EASY to be like, oh, that’s a different megan. i have screencaps on that as well but you can look for yourself. and no, it’s not a ‘well maybe it was her birthday and she accidentally forgot to change it’ deal.
i’ve had MULTIPLE people who were completely harassed/abused/terrorized by her who didn’t even KNOW megan was elle/beth/meg/etc. they were in rps with her and had no clue, still, to this day. people i know who left rps because of it only in the last three months since she said she was going to ‘step back’. i still get people coming to me about it.
her apology was bullshit because she did nothing she said she would and totally didn’t take ownership for all the shit she did. her behavior remains the same. if there was true remorse the actions would be different.
i also got a message from the admins from exile, who tried to tell me i was ‘misunderstanding their intentions in letting her be in the rp’ etc. not to mention her and those friends have been stalking me and other people who don’t want to be around them and have been clear on that. but her friends literally enable her! they really went out of their way to message me a month or so back when exile was first back on the scene! not to mention her friends were making fun of people calling her out and her alias’ / ninety identities out. they think people are overreacting and that it’s funny. it’s not.
i’m happy that you came to me anon, but this person has shown this behavior consistently for over two fucking years, there really shouldn’t be a doubt in anyone’s mind. i remember when as elle she came to me and i had no idea it was beth/megan/wesley/meg, and she was EXTREMELY nice to me but after finding out it was someone who i’d openly said i didn’t like/supported the people who were abused by her … it was scary. it was anxiety provoking. but i wasn’t even the one who was abused/manipulated etc by her. she just stole my shit and lied to me. it’s important we support the people hurt by her because they deserve to be heard and supported.
