(Context: I am wearing a hard plastic cervical brace to support my neck pre-surgery next month)
Why the hell would anyoneâs approach to asking about my brace as âWHATâD YOU DO TO YOUR NECK!?â I mean a grown ass adult woman, not a child.
Like, thanks for your âconcernâ but examine your tone, your phrasing and whether youâd ask someone using any other type of assistive medical device as WHATâD YOU DO TO...
I didnât DO anything. I had a tumor grow in my spine and required surgery and now itâs something else too but itâs none of your damn business. Go away.