#learning dominance

The different Dom types

I’m frequently entertained by blonde over at Love of Slavery, but she has a thoughtful side as well. As a Dom, I don’t think much about Dom classifications. Being on the other end of the cane, so to speak, she has summed up the field succinctly and offered her own opinions.

While she has covered almost all types, there’s probably a few smaller sub-species wandering around. There’s one I call the…

What do you do with a sub that simply refuses to obey?

Once again the terrible, terrible walks have caused problems around here, but not without a good ending. After our last argument about walking and ‘nagging’ her about it, I changed the rules: she would get no warnings or reminders, but would simply be punished if she failed to exercise on schedule. This last week has been a tough one with various things popping up, events to organize and work…

How can one learn dominance?

While I’ve heard many tales of people who knew they were spankos from, apparently, the time their mother’s doctor gave them a swat on the butt, I’m more interested in the stories of ‘discovery’. Whether gradual or abrupt, wrenching dislocation or a blessed relief, I’m endless fascinated by the moment of realization. As for myself, I’ve always leaned toward dominance, more so the older I got. But…