#ldbt

I get that honest, ignorant mistakes can still be harmful and should be called out, by all means, correct someone that is offensive (purposely or not ) !

I suppose that seeing a word that has been used negatively towards you or an entire generation of lgbt+ people is unsettling.

Isn't it frequent in our community to use the words thrown against us and proudly use them, showing it's not necessarily harming us like they wish it did? (I admit this idea comes from the movie Pride.)

Is it that hard to respect eachother? Be proud of eachother journeys ? Accept when someone come out several time in their lifetime, don't use a label, use several,...

We all have some bias, we will say clumsy things unintentionally, listen to the person in question to learn, do your own researches (easier said them done with all the info contradicting sometimes).