Honestly i have seen a lot of "Kuniharu isn't abusive" confessions and let me put it Honestly:
Okay. If you dont see him as abusive or even as a bad parent you have all the right to do so, but you also gotta understand that in a fandom space, with the technology we have today, you can filter and block tags, and i personally have not seen many "Kuniharu is abusive blablabla" untagged fics?
I will speak from experience as someone who does have a father who resembles him EXTREMELY. I do not like being around him (my father). He creates competition and jokes around in serious times, never really listening to boundaries and understanding that i have feelings too.
When i first got into this series, at around 9-10years old, i saw myself in Kusuo in many ways, and one of those was his father always trying to impose a "hierarchy".
I understand that it's me projecting since young, and that even if in canon he once tried to kick a small kusuo, he still loves him, or that even if he says cringey things or makes mistakes some people do not see it as abuse because he loves his son.
But i do. I do because it's my headcanon and just like i dont give a fuck about fics with bitchy teruhashi or mean kusuo i can just scroll and stop reading.
I just needed to confess that this fandom drives me crazy with its tendency of being unable to ignore shit
-Kye
[Confession 653]
