#kuroko2

thats how i felt when i tried changing to mika ffff. i still have it as like another name but i have a strong attachment to kenna/ken

your no. 6 posts give me strength tbh

i think it might be a very common thing for ppl with avpd bc i’ve noticed that some of my friends with avpd are the same way as well. like for me, it gives me s/t else to focus on instead of my own problems and it makes me feel useful.

tbh i feel the same way?? like i cant start conversations or keep them going to save my life, but helping other ppl and giving advice just comes so naturally and its the only time i feel completely comfortable conversing with someone

yeah that totally makes sense!! i sway between male and agender, so i definitely get what you mean by feeling indifferent to your gender. (fffff im catching up on any rn and shin ah is so precious and definitely me)

i’m glad it made sense!! but yee i’m just like. afraid that ppl will not think of my gender as “real” because i don’t fit the stereotypical idea of agender ppl OTL which i know i shouldn’t care about but still.

the way you present has nothing to do with your gender tbh!! the idea that you need to look masculine to be non binary is super????mysogynistic??? so yeah basically gender expression=/=gender (im speaking from experience here so i might be wrong tho)

i’ve always thought so??? like it seems really sexist and also very patriarchal. i’ve always wondered why “male” clothes seem to be the “gender neutral” ones?? i mean aren’t all clothes gender neutral?? it never made sense to me ugh

kuroko2 replied to your post “i’ve been wondering if i can be agender while presenting as femme?? it...”

yeah that's totally possible!! there are plenty of agender/nonbinary people that are femme presenting