#knowing bear

As his love runs out the door, underdressed, Ubbe would gather up what he needed, follow his love out and dress them. If they got sick, he would fuss. There would be putting into bed, feeding them soup and so on.

Ivar would be most unimpressed. He would grumble the entire time as he provided care to his lover. When they were finally better, he’d have a discussion with them about dressing for the weather, followed by a reminder spanking.

how easily would your muse get over a bad breakup?

Bear / Bjorn - My squishy romantic would be deeply crushed by a bad breakup - especially one that involved infidelity or similar. It would take him quite some time to recover and likely make him a bit more possessive in his next relationship.

Ubbe - He rebounds more quickly than his elder brother but it would take some time, especially if he was the one who was left.

Ivar - Never completely gets over it. Ever. Pain is something he nurtures and holds onto for the rest of his life.

does your muse usually plan out dates or go with the flow?

Bear / Bjorn - He is a big fan of the romantic surprises, especially if outdoors like picnics and walks by the waterfront or in the moonlight. 

Ubbe - He likes to take people to events, shows, theatre. He wants to show you off, buy you a wonderful gown or suit to wear. He wants a stylish lover on his arm. 

Ivar - He is the most go with the flow when it comes to romantic interactions. Everything is a bit spontaneous and he is also a big fan of “staying in” and spending the night together.

how easily does your muse fall in love?

Bear is a romantic and believes in love absolutely. He falls in love quickly but stays in love if it is returned.

does your muse usually take the lead in relationships?

Bear has a caregiver / caretaker personality. As such, he observes his lover and tries to provide the leadership in a way that supports and lifts up his woman rather than dominate them.

does your muse believe in soulmates?

Oooh I could do one of these per blog I interact with and follow but that is an obscenely long list. LOL. 

how easily does your muse fall in love?

Bjorn/Bear -- Falls in love at the drop of a hat. Honestly, this fellow is a fool for love. 

Ubbe -- His heart is a little more cautious but he wants to believe in love and very much wants to be loved.

Ivar -- He struggles with love and while he wants to believe it is possible, his heart is quite guarded.

if your muse is uncomfortable in a relationship, will they address the problem or keep quiet?

Bjorn/Bear -- He will generally address a problem but is quick to end a relationship if there has been infidelity or similar.

Ubbe -- He is fundamentally a fixer who would want to remedy the problem and is apt to discuss worries or concerns and get ahead of the trouble.

Ivar -- He broods or explodes in anger. He is the most likely to just end the relationship rather than try to work through a problem.