#kldp

I know, I know, I’m mad late.

I just want to speak on things. I think it’s good Jacob & Kerissa didn’t get back together. I sort of rooted for them to finally get it together but that’s not real life. They weren’t happy or healthy. They needed to go their separate ways and that’s ok. Life isn’t a happy ending all the time. The person we thought would be our partner for life may not be. Sometimes people who find each other aren’t meant to be. It’s not always sustainable.

Kerissa fought hard, just like I do but eventually she let go. She set boundaries to ensure they didn’t fall back into that mess. When she left, she left. A lesson Can’t let familiarity get you stuck.

I think it’s good that Grace didn’t end up with Noah. Things aren’t fairytales. Love can expand. You can have multiple great loves. There’s not always an “end game” in life.

It makes me think about my outlook on love. There were people I’ve really cared deeply for. We’ve circled back around or never left each other alone. It doesn’t mean we are end game. Love shouldn’t be so hard or complicated. It shouldn’t be toxic either. There is love that that is healthy, peaceful and relatively easy. Stop watering and feeding things that are meant to just lay there and lie. It’s okay to let things go.

I also love GiGi choosing herself. She pursued what she needed for her spirit. She realized her family would be fine without her. She didn’t want to but it’s why she has to.

Another thing, an important peace of advice - “Check your heart.” It’s important to make sure you are acting out of love. It truly is the only way.

I think that’s hard to accept too,

You gotta keep going, keep pushing.

There will always be someone doing the same thing as you.

However, nobody can be YOU. That’s your power.

Keep doing, keep creating. Your uniqueness is what will make you pop.