AAtwt is a hellhole never go
AAtwt is frustrating because they immediately throw claims of people being incest fetishizers or pedos if people ship something they think represents these things, when in reality they don't
Like odonaru, some people genuinely believe IT IS CANON that Phoenix sees Apollo as his son and Apollo sees Phoenix as his dad. They can't understand or rationalize people have different views of these characters, views that in all honestly align more with actual canon than their own.
Apollo views Trucy as a little sister and Trucy views Apollo as big brother in canon. They are also siblings. THAT DOES NOT MEAN THAT PHOENIX MUST VIEW APOLLO AS HIS SON OR APOLLO SEES PHOENIX AS A DAD OR FATHER FIGURE.
Apollo is an employee/mentee/friend to Phoenix. Phoenix is a employer/mentor/friend to Apollo. Apollo has two fathers already.
Now does that mean that I don't think odonaru is a bit weird? NO! I do think it's weird and I like that! Especially since odonaru to me is more fwb situation than anything else. I like complex relationships with good people who do morally gray things.
You can think it's weird but people are not "bad people" or "fetishizers" for shipping these two. You can interpret their relationship as familial but it is not canon, nor heavily implied, and people are allowed to interpret it differently.
This also applies to ryulock. Iris sees Susato and Ryunosuke as siblings and Herlock is her father. That doesn't mean Herlock and Ryunosuke have to have the same traditional familial relationship.
Peoples minds explode when they realize your lover, best friend, and friends can be apart of your found family. And the relationship within that found family between each character is not strictly familial. Ex: your lover may be apart of your found family but you also have a sexual and romantic relationship. Ryulock can and do have different relationships with each other outside of other characters!!
Most of them can not handle simple age gaps relationships either. Some people think homumiko is weird or pedophilic because of their age difference and when they meet. It's the same reason they hate or think ryulock, asolock, ryumiko, and krispollo are all "proships". When they are at most morally dubious or "taboo".
anyway I may leave because most people are such buzzkills and can't understand people interpret media differently than them