#kin psa

If kin things cause you physical pain, please see a doctor. My aches from my tail are also from my scoliosis, the pain in my shoulders from my wings is again, scoliosis, and my head pain from my horns? I have constant headaches.

Tbh I am really sick of people who kin for fun because it's "trendy" and "cool." I am also really sick of any and all kinnies that say there is a right and wrong way to kin because that is not the case. Nothing in this world or any other is black and white outside of being dead. Because newsflash, real spiritual kins take their kins and past/current/future lives very seriously. Remembering the bad is hard but remembering the good, even very little good, is it's own reward. Having these identities and knowing that there will be something more after this life, that it doesn't just end with death, is a wonderful thing. Being kin is not "trendy" or "cool;" it is not a community people should be inviting themselves into to be different, unique, or more than just a fan of a show. And while kin can be fun and have loads of inside jokes and fun things like kin assigning people, that is not the point nor should it be the reason or part of the reason that someone is kin. Relating to a character and liking them does not make them a kin, that is a synpath. Making up memories for timelines because that's what you want/wanted to happen is not kin and is also very invalidating to real people who truly kin as well, to a lesser extent, to real people that have true copinglinks. The real truth? Shit happens in this life and others. Things were different then 99% of the time, the person was a different one then 99% of the time. People change, situations change, the world is completely new. As for the whole "shipping" nonesense, that is only a term that should be left for someone's fanbase that isn't a kin source. Real spiritual kin do not choose their timelines, their kins, nor do they decide to say they were with someone or two people were because "uwu the ship is cute." That is not how it is. And you know what? Who is anyone to say that any relationship is bad just because it would be in source? People's lifetimes aren't determined by what we know as the source material for those kintypes. That's why there are non-canon kins and canon-divergent kins because things were different for them. Them being bad in this life is what matters, not having been before. I choose to get to know people now and focus on the present when it comes to judging people. Always.

So, yall can have your pointless discourse and drama that only hurts people and doesn't help anyone besides your selfish selves. You can have fun flipping on each other at the drop of a hat because you all have nothing better to do with your lives than sit on your device and bully random people on the internet just because you think there is a right and wrong way to kin. Because, to be quite honest, aside from being really annoyed with all the bullshit, I literally could not care less. I have three amazing partners that I care for who count on me and a whole host of friends that love and care about me as I do them that are far more important than any drama. I am no stranger to the block button and I don't give a single fuck how many accounts you make or how many callout posts, those who care about me will always be there and your words hold nothing on me. I know who I truly am, who I was, and who I will be.

Tldr; if you think that there is a right way to kin and a wrong way or that people, even spiritual kins, choose their kins and timelines, get off my fucking page. If you kin for fun because it's "trendy" and "cool" and believe in anyway that any spiritual kinners are invalid or wrong or bad or evil or all of the above because they had a few unsavory timelines, get the fuck off my page. I will not "hear" you out, I will not listen to run your ignorant mouths, I will not put up with any bullshit. I will block and that will be the end of it. I have much better things to do than sit here and listen to little children and adults that act like little children run their mouths at me because they don't want to comprehend spiritual kin. You can run off to your little friends and make mean comments all you want, spreading hatred for something you choose not to understand, and I will be making better use of my time than dealing with childish haters that could actually be doing something useful with their time.

Don’t celebrate pride as your kin.

This is going to be a slightly long post so I’ll be putting it under the cut!