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honestly i have noticed that too, i was on a truscum/transmed stim blog bc i accidently found it and.....one of the posts was legit abt how trans guys can use stuff from the hardware store to stim with and like. nice resourcefulness i guess but? thats not? automatically? manly??

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One of our old exes that seems to like to harass us and Elliot’s boyfriend a lot, or at the very least stalk us. We’ve been separated from him, even as just an acquaintance or friend, for about 2 years now but he seems to always drag up things again. And he goes behind blocks on social media to send / message nasty things, today being an example as we have his main blocked on our accounts. He’s also harassed and stalked other people, mostly past partners, and been either abusive or just toxic in some way. We did know him at a bad point in our life and did say / do some childish, immature, or otherwise untasteful things (nothing too extreme, just really embarrassing honestly). So I will give him that, we weren’t the best, but nothing so extreme we deserve all this I believe. We were at the very most toxic at the time if anything, and have gotten better since then. Along with learning from it all, what was bad, etc. Anyways, I went into a bit of detail just in case he does bring up anything or try to add on to the drama or such - k

transmeds are people who believe trans identities should be medicalized, truscum are the ones who believe anyone whos trans requires dysphoria to be trans. i didnt say that trans ppl who experience dysphoria are gross, i meant that ppl who are excluding and gatekeeping in that sense are gross. because dysphoria is sometimes a big element in ppls lives as a trans person, but for others its not. and a lot of times being trans doesnt mean someones binary trans, which would make dysphoria more complicated and different, or just nonexistent in the sense that theyd view their body as their gender regardless, etc etc. not to mention a lot of transmeds/truscum are exclusionary to nonbinary identities or identities that arent binary trans. the whole argument is very broad and has different points to different people, but in the end, i dont want ppl who disregard the possibility of someone being trans without dysphoria and/or view being trans as a medical condition rather than an identity to interact

YEAH that too, like i personally dont even have much dysphoria on average when hanging out at home or around ppl im super comfortable with. but with strangers and in public i get so much more nervous and self conscious abt not looking the way i want gender presentation wise. and yeah like....a lot of times in misc studies ive read, it was shown that a lot of times gay or trans patients that were being “treated” for their feelings felt broken, and disconnected from other people in a super unhealthy way. it really just sounds like an awful idea, especially since we as a community have already grown from that stage of identity back when it was a thing. thank you for sending this and agreeing with me tho!

oh dont worry! im tagging all this with “X mention” so as long as people have that blacklisted, they wont see it. it would make it harder to search in tags is all!

its np! i honestly understand being confused, all this is confusing, esp with all the weird labels. and yeah i get that, i used to be kinda.....undecided on all this but after looking at the community, it kinda helped me decided i didnt like that at all. i hope ya figure it out tho!