#keeping control

Clashes of steel echoed through the training hall. Dimitri practiced alone with a training dummy and his lance. While he trained into the late evening, the young prince was quickly lost in the movements. It was something that happened often the more he trained. He let his thoughts wander as he planted excise blows on the dummy. Usually the only repercussion was losing focus of his strength and-SNAP-... breaking his lance.

The breaking of his lance brought Dimitri back to reality. With a deep sigh he walked over and retrieved the other half. Examining the splintered wood, he cursed under his breath.

“I need to keep better control of my strength.” he muttered to himself. At least it was just a training lance. Dimitri thought as he replaced the broken lance with his back-up.

PRAYING EFFECTIVELY—LEAD US TO PRAY

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Be In Control

The proper attitude to have towards praying is that of a creator trying to create an event successfully. You must assume control, and…

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It’s one thing being shown or being told what to do when we’re struggling to understand how to do something, but it’s another thing being controlled by others and yet for some of us that is exactly what we allow.

It’s almost expected; or we allow it to happen unconsciously because we don’t know how to say No. Any decisions or outcomes in our life should be ours to make and yet in reality the opposite is true. We conform to other people’s decisions even though it’s not the life we want.

No one has the right to take or have control over another person’s life, whether it’s a parent child relationship, or a sibling relationship. Although childhood often teaches us how not to do things, living in an environment where control is constantly part of the equation, comes at a cost.

Unless we change how we perceive and deal with one another, relationships that involve control will never change or get better. Those who control must allow those they control to live their own lives and learn a different way to be.

For those of us who are on the receiving end of control, we must learn how to take and keep control and learn to say No.