Cis male sexuality is held in a much higher esteem. It's also the reason why erectile dysfunction pills are covered by insurance. I've never heard of a man struggling to convince his doctor to prescribe Viagra, yet women / people who need birth control are being denied based on "moral" grounds (that is not to say that ED pills are in any way "immoral" or "unnecessary," I believe their availability is important. But encouraging people to take control of their reproductive planning seems a little more pertinent, no?).

But since you brought up male condoms: that is entirely too true. A lot of people are unaware that "female condoms" (also known as internal condoms) even exist, and their availability is limited. There is only one brand of female condoms that I have personally seen and I have only ran across them once outside of Planned Parenthood at a store in Philadelphia.