Inside the mind of Kanya King: Founder and CEO of the MOBO Awards (by Steph Santos)
Original blog post here âĄïž https://www.stephsantos.co.uk/post/inside-the-mind-of-kanya-king-founder-and-ceo-of-the-mobo-awards
Last week, our Media Trust group had the opportunity to pick the brain of the incredibly inspiring Kanya King, founder and CEO of the MOBO Awards. Before anything, Iâd really like to thank Kanya again for her time as a lot of what was discussed deeply resonated with me. She started by telling us how COVID-19 has affected prep for the MOBOs comeback scheduled for this November. Soft spoken, with a huge smile and energy so warm and humble it radiated through the screen, Kanya emphasised how the safety of everyone involved is a top priority for the MOBOs.
Whilst this was all very interesting and I love hearing about a successful entrepreneurâs ventures, what I love even more (at least at this early stage of my own life) is studying their mind-set, absorbing their wisdom and formulating a âblueprintâ. How does a successful and fulfilled mind think? What underlines a winnerâs mentality? What are their biggest mental challenges? How do you overcome these? All this is super important for me to understand as I think the correct mind-set is the foundation for building the life of your dreams.
You need to be a problem solver in every aspect.
This is a trait every entrepreneur and go-getter, whether you are just starting out or a long- time CEO, will always have. âWeâre used to problems, be creative in solutions and what you doâ says Kanya.
Have a strong sense of purpose and believe in yourself, because people will try to get rid of you and write you off.
This is something that anyone who has ever had an idea will experience. I feel it multiplies in intensity the âwilderâ the idea seems. Kanya mentioned a careers advisor to whom she once explained her vision and plans, for this career advisor to tell her to be more realistic. That given her circumstances, she should get a job at Sainsburyâs and if she worked hard enough, she could potentially become a manager. âThat gave me the drive and ambition to realise who I was destined to become, was who I decided to be. That gave me ammunition. The drive and motivation to succeedâ. Kanya isnât the first person to share that hearing âNoâ fuelled her drive. I heard the same from Henrie Kwushue in a previous Zoom call, and from multiple individuals who I have encountered at different points of my life.
For Kanya, this didnât stop even after putting on a successful MOBOâs show. âPeople started to compare us to conglomerates out there. I thought weâd get the love and support but actually, there were a lot of people trying to get rid of us. That really surprised me. In the end, you get to a state where you donât ask for permission anymore, you just do what you do, be proud and go forthâ. Kanyaâs experience is unique in the sense that she was creating a space for black culture, and pioneering the diversity movement in music and entertainment at a time when the conversations were nowhere near as prevalent as they are today. However, the take away message remains. Have a powerful sense of purpose and believe in it. It then becomes very difficult for anyone to challenge you.
Get yourself a team of mastermind friends.
Iâd be lying if I said this one hasnât become increasingly obvious to me on my own journey. I still feel like I am searching for my tribe, so at times life can feel pretty lonely which is also something Kanya touched upon by saying the entrepreneur lifestyle can be âa very isolating existenceâ. However, when I do find and interact with people I admire and respect, the more my mind seems to expand whether thatâs with confidence, ideas and inspiration, new concepts and questions, or often all of these things at once. Not only that, but I find that certain struggles are best understood by people who are or have been in similar shoes, and naturally theyâll advise you based on their experience. Itâs a whole process of osmosis, so I was not surprised to hear Kanya frequently circle back to this point.
âYou have to find your own mastermind circle of people that you can pick up the phone and get advice, or that youâre just inspired by. Having friends out there who are championing and trailblazing inspires me to up my game and helps meâ. Thereâs a reason social scientists say that you reflect the people you surround yourself with â and thatâs because it is true. Iâm a product of my environment. Mastermind friends hold you to a higher standard for yourself. âOften when you vocalise [a dream] to someone, people will hold you accountable. Being accountable is really important.â
Another important role that mastermind friends play is that of a trusted impartial counsel. âIf you have a buddy, meet up and share. A problem shared is a problem halved. No matter what it looks like out there, no entrepreneur business person gets there alone, itâs all about the team. Have a team around you that are willing to give you honest adviceâ. Kanya was very open about the realities of being an entrepreneur. âA lot of entrepreneurs might talk about the wins and the successes but there are so many lows. Itâs important to realise that. That mastermind network is so important to have otherwise the first challenge you get, youâre tempted to give up.â
Kanya didnât have a mentor when she first started out. She stated that this led her to doing everything you shouldnât do and making all the mistakes because she had no one advising her. âI didnât have any track record, I didnât have any mentors or advisors, I didnât have any money and I didnât have connectionsâ. So what did Kanya have? Thatâs easy. âI had this overwhelming desire to succeed and I didnât have a plan B, that allowed me to overcome so many obstaclesâ.
However, if you do have people willing to be your mentors or you can learn from someone, itâs highly advisable. âMentors come in many guises. You donât need to have the official title of a mentor to be a mentorâ, says Kanya. âYour mentor may be someone you admire and whose journey you can followâ. Mentors can even be someone who you isolate a specific character trait from and embed that into your life. Kanya spoke about her own mother who although advised her to not start her own business (it came from that place of love where they just want you to be safe and secure in life), what Kanya did admire was how hard her mother worked and the resilience with which she navigated her challenges in life. This offered Kanya lots of perspective when faced with her own set of challenges.
There are no shortcuts. Itâs hard work so the drive and motivation come from within.
You have to get out there and start. âItâs better to do something than to do nothing. You are far more likely to learn from doing than you are watchingâ. I felt this one. You can watch every motivational video on YouTube, you can listen to every interview, at some point you will have to DO things too, or all youâve done is accumulate enormous amounts of theory in your head. Iâm guilty of this myself, of failing to move past the research stage. At some point you have to take the leap and become the guinea pig in your own real life experiment. âThere are no shortcuts, there are no get rich quick schemes. You need to put in the time and the determination. It helps to do something that youâre passionate about. Youâve got to be 100% motivated in your aims and objectives otherwise youâll give upâ. Thatâs the non sugar-coated truth from Kanya King.
Also, if you overthink it, you may just think yourself out of it entirely. âI didnât anticipate half of the challenges I would go on to face and itâs probably a good thing. Had I known all the things I know now, that might have put me off! What I did know is Iâve always had the stamina, always had the energy and always fought hard for what I believe inâ. Iâm a massive over thinker, so for me itâs best to jump and just trust that I will be able to cross bridges as they come.
A quick summary of the way Kanyaâs mind works: believe in yourself even if others donât, believe in your ability to be a problem solver, surround yourself with similar minds so you can support and push each other forward, anticipate the hard work and commit to making your vision happen. Donât ask for permission, make it happen.
And on that note â I recently discovered a love for video production and editing alongside photography and music, so anyone wanting to create behind the scenes/tour content when things get back to normal, shout me!
Also, do check out the MOBO Awards IG Live Show, #LowdownInLockdown. Every Friday they have two awesome guests on it.
You can follow Kanya on her twitter (@KanyaKing) and instagram (@kanyakingCBE).