Younger 4B women: expect to be constantly told that you're "being too afraid to live life," or that you're "running away from love to avoid heartbreak" or whatever. This is the primary way you'll be psyopped back into domestic servitude. Expect it, anticipate it, or you might not be able to see through it.
You are going to constantly be told--both explicitly and implicitly through constant propaganda and social conditioning--that finding a male mate is natural, healthy, and the secret key to a rich and full life. You WILL be beaten over the head with the concept that as long as you stubbornly and childishly refuse men, your only choice is to live a sad, unfulfilling, half-life.
But think about it. Of course men are going to try their hardest to woo you back into servitude!! They were getting the best deal ever and you were getting totally scammed. Btw, he knows that he had the better end of the deal (even if he complains that women have it easier), so he looks down on you because he thinks you're stupid and naive for getting tricked by him. When your boyfriend acts distant and unloving it's because he is.
Remember: everything men say is projection, especially when it's about women. When a man (or a male-allied woman) tells you you'll be sad and alone if you don't want to get married, that's pure projection. HE would be unfulfilled and alone because you were supplying all of the spark and personality and excitement in the relationship. But you'll be fine.
Men are biological parasites. The origins of sex are literally the scientific definition of parasitism. When men wax philosophical about "the other half" or how "men and women complete each other," it's because the host completes the parasite. Again, projection. The parasite is nothing without the host. But men are too short-sighted to realize that it's completely one-sided. The host has absolutely no need for the parasite. In fact, it's the only thing holding her back.
