Whenever I watch Jess episodes Iām left wondering...
Iāve seen people make the defense that Rory saw beyond the stupidness. That when Jess acted out Rory defended him because she knew how smart he was and knew that the Jess everyone saw wasnāt really him. My opinion is that Jess was a teenager. All teenagers act out. If he didnāt grow up and out of it I would have been worried, but he did.
Itās not just stupidness and acting out. He treats her badly and doesnāt respect things that are important to her (like her family or her hometown).Ā
I also donāt think we have enough time withĀ āgrown upā Jess to really know how much heās changed. Heās certianly more responsible, but we really have no idea how his behavior/the way he treats people has changed.Ā