#jellyguy

EDIT: Jellyguy has since deleted his blog. This post will be kept up for reference purposes.

before we get started this isn't to spread hate against him or any party. this is just to get all the information out there and i dont recommend attacking the inbox of any party involved

im going to try to be unbiased and let the pictures speak for themselves so there isn't going to be a lot of text, and this post will of course be updated when or if I get new information so just send me an ask if you have questions about stuff

okay so julian has kind of a bad habit of sending nudes to his 14-year-old friend august (suddenlywolf), repeatedly, as a joke

(screencap taken december 23rd)

if this were an isolated case then maybe this wouldn't be such a big deal but it isnt as I know of at least three people who he has sent unsolicited nudes to (we'll get to that later)

what set off the incident last night (Jan 1st, going past midnight) was this anon julian received

julian then proceeded to ignore that the ask actually meant anything and took it to mean he hits on everyone he talks to

he may not have realized it but he has done some (even little) suggestive things towards people in relationships, one I take particular issue with is him tagging one of my girlfriend (lopfax)'s selfies as "unf"

(screencap taken december 26th)

(after this post was made he claimed that this was a joke but considering I'm in a relationship with her I didn't find it very funny)

It may be noted that Julian has a girlfriend of his own currently (though apparently she's okay with his passes at other people)

i sent him a few anons trying to get him to understand where the issue is

as I said before he has sent nudes to people without their permission. I'll get to that in a second

(this was the last anon sent by me)

again he misses the point and assumes its just about him jokingly sending nudes to august (suddenlywolf)

brett furscum (who also knows of people who julian has sent nudes to) also tried to get him to understand

eventually he confesses he fucked up somewhere

...only to continue to deny where he fucked up

(this was in response to being called abusive by goodshitop, and while I'm not going to go into whether what he did was abusive or not he continues to deny he sent unsolicited nudes "to strangers")

(url and avatar blurred on request)

he keeps missing the bigger picture like this until tumblr user bashmin comes in

at this point forrest (gajara) comes forward and says he's had a similar experience with julian

julian keeps trying to resolve this but to everyone else it remains impossible to just "resolve" what he did

eventually bashmin just tells julian that the best course of action is to leave entirely

there was an additional response to this (which jellyguy deleted). I don't have a screencap of it since he deleted it before I took all of these but I had pasted the text in a Skype chat beforehand:

uyou can not be lumping me into the same category as someone who molests people holy shit like i am sorry but i made a mistake a while ago anf it wont be repeated. do not categorize me with rapists     for god sakes

(from later events I gather that this post was originally worded in such a way that by "victim of molestation" julian may have interpreted it as being about him molesting instead of a previous abuser which may have prompted him to reply in such a way)

while this was happening julian sent a fan mail to tumblr user ayanamis, prompting this post to be made (which was later reblogged by julian with defense):

this was the ask that happened in between these events

all of this happened last night, but this afternoon caz lopfax answered an ask (likely received last night) revealing publicly that she's also had to put up with julian's behavior

  this is basically every major event that happened (to my knowledge)

my recommended course of action for julian in this situation is to delete because this got so blown up (i believe rightfully so) that there's no way he'll ever be treated the same way after this

note that these are not the only victims of his behavior, these are only the people that have come forward. I know for sure there are more because at least one of them has come to me in private about it (their identity will remain anonymous because I don't think they'd like to be involved)