#jeeze

she was the universe

If I had a dollar for every time a self-proclaimed "transfeminist" has popped up on one of my posts ready to fight me and belittle me because they disagree with me (usually about my own experiences), I'd have enough money to buy a trans woman a pizza AND pay my rent.

Hey. I don’t really know what you are trying to achieve by saying this to me. I have been part of the fanfiction community since I was a teenager and running tag lists in this way has been very common for years especially on tumblr. If you don’t like the way I run my blog, that is absolutely fine. Nobody is forcing you to stay here and read my stuff. And if these people are too shy to speak up for themselves that they don’t want to be a part of the tag list , then all they have to do is block me or just.. don’t look at the notification. I get lots of notifications on here and only look at a very small amount of them. I’m not going to change the way I run this blog just because one person doesn’t like it and that’s on period. Why is this upsetting you so deeply? Why don’t you just go to read other people’s work and block me if it bothers you so much? If people were really going through that much shit, I’m sure the last thing on their minds is getting tagged every once in a while in a post for a character they enjoyed previously. Do you think this is a productive way to spend your time? I’ve been nothing but kind and respectful and I’m unsure if you are the same anon, but I haven’t been getting that back from you. I am an adult woman with a life. A job, a family, bills to pay. Writing and interacting with friends on here is one of my hobbies and I don’t deserve to receive these messages in my inbox accusing me of being selfish or whatever. You don’t have to be an outgoing person to send a text or an ask saying “can I be removed from x characters tag list”. I’ve explained already that it doesn’t offend me whatsoever, I have enough shit in my life to be worried about and no tears will be shed over a person not wanting a part in my community. And I will NOT tolerate anyone having opinion on what kind of person I am when you have no idea who I am. I’m not too sure if that “what a lovely person you are” comment was about me or @easybbgrl but either way I will not have that shit said on my blog about anybody. You don’t even have the confidence to come on here without hiding behind anon. I try not to let these kind of pathetic asks piss me off but I am only a person. A person who is very fucking stressed at the minute with things that don’t have anything to do with fanfiction. Either block me or just stop coming into my askbox with such non issues. I’m guessing from the way you phrased this that you are not the same anon and I honestly don’t understand why you are jumping in to defend that person if you aren’t. It’s not like I was in any way disrespectful to them and if you have a problem with @easybbgrls comment on the post — which was a very valid point — then talk to them about it. And you saying “it was a genuine inquiry about being removed from a tag list” is bullshit. That anon didn’t even specify whether I had put them on my tag list or not and that was actually something I was trying to figure out but of course, they weren’t up for an adult, productive conversation and just decided to rant on about non controversial shit I do on my tag list. If you actually read the conversation between us, I did ask them if they would like to be removed which they never responded to. They just came in, called me pretentious for thinking I have the right to tag people in work. If they were asking to be removed, they would’ve actually stated that and not come on on anon.

I don't even know if Zirk and Gage are on speaking terms after that.

The cats in my spare room are multiplying

I don’t remember every single one of harrys friends ??? 😭😭😭😭