#itsprettyhard

I took the personality test today, thinking my personality might have changed a bit I took it about 3 years ago, and I have remained the same. I guess I haven’t changed at all, maybe that’s a good thing, or a bad thing.  

“The ISFJ  has a difficult time saying "no" when asked to do something, and may become over-burdened. In such cases, the ISFJ does not usually express their difficulties to others, because they intensely dislike conflict, and because they tend to place other people's needs over their own.” 

I was reading about what makes an ISFJ an ISFJ, and this was way to accurate. When someone personally comes up or messages me to do a favor, for some reason I always feel obligated to do so. I really need to say “no” sometimes. I read a saying somewhere, “You don’t have to light yourself on fire to keep someone warm.” And its right, I don’t have to do something just because someone asked me to do it, its not my responsibility to do whatever you ask me to do, but for some odd reason, its like being held at gun point... Okay maybe that's too big of an exaggeration but c’mon.