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Sakin naman, samen, is yung awkwardness ay basta kung napag usapan na at naging okay ay wala na..back to normal. Depende kasi un sa pagtanggap ng tao if gusto talagang maayos o takasan na lang at hayaan na lang na ganun. Kung both side ay tatanggapin ang parehong naging mali at marunong magpakumbaba.

Sakin basta nasabi ko na yung dapat kung sabihin okay na ako." . . .

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Leaves by Ben&Ben 🩵

Not all people are meant to stay in our lives.

Some will stay while others opted to just passed by. Some will accompany you in some memorable moments in your life, be it happiness or sadness, frustration or calmness.

Some will even go with you to dance in the storm or float in the clouds. But all of these

are in for a moment. Eventually they will go and move forward to the own journey of their lives. As you will eventually do the same.

Some goodbyes will be good and some will be not. Others may leave with a happy heart but others may be different and hold a grudge.

Nonetheless, as long as you are being true at that moment you have nothing to loose.

At the end of the day, at the end of our journeys there is one place that we can be altogether again.🤍

9/11/2023

mhaanne

An open letter to those having a hard time to choose.

Maybe sometimes, we tend to hold on to the things that makes us happy even thou we knew it is wrong because we loved and loving the feeling of being in love and being cared of. We like this fairytale feelings that we don’t experience on the person that is supposed to do this to us. So, when we found a new person that can give these things that we’re longing of, we forgot everything and let ourselves soaked in that comfort that we longed for. We are lost and we knew that. But because of the satisfaction it gives, the warmth of its comfort, the subtle feeling it gives like we are floating into the clouds of peaceful bliss we are carried along on the stream of happiness and decided to give ourselves into it.

 But in our age right now we need to erase those fairytale dreams and face the reality that those days have gone past and we cannot go back to it anymore. The teenage days are long over and the petty battles are gone. Because the true battle now is much harder and will surely crash our hearts into pieces.

 As I always hold to the saying that pain is made to be felt.

I also want you to feel it, endure it and overcome it. I guarantee you the process is really painful but the outcome is beautiful. It will not only crash you but it will mold you to be stronger and wiser.

 Do what is right. That is the best thing to do.

But how one will know which is right and which is wrong? Ask for the answer to God. God knows which one you should do and you must do. You knew it, but you are scared and still drowned into that fairytale feeling that you don’t want to end. You don’t want to feel that cruel pain, that burning pain that will mold you and will make you stronger. Instead you want to choose that painful but comfortable feeling that you are longing of.

I’ve been there. It is hard. But think of the consequences it will bring. Are you ready to face it? Are you ready to give up one thing for the other? Are you willing to break the heart of your loved ones so deep? Do you want those wounds to cut deep in their hearts? Those innocent pure hearts that loves you purely and surely no matter what. Time will come that you will realize how important your actions in this present time. Which will you choose? Regret or acceptance.

 Acceptance that you do the right thing to do and build that broken relationship. Acceptance that you ended that fairytale feeling. Acceptance that you chose to protect and choose those who will suffer the most in the end. Acceptance that in this life, sacrifice is essential. Or, regret your whole life that you chose to broke the hearts of your loved ones. Regret for that broken family. Regret that you chose your own happiness over lifetime wound that cannot heal in the hearts of those who loved you. Regret that you will question your choices until the end of your life.

So the ball is yours to choose between what is right and what is wrong. Or simply I say, what is proper and what is not. As I can’t really conclude that what is happening to you right now is right and the one is wrong. Rather both are right or both are wrong and you just need to choose which one you should go for.

If you find it hard to know the answers, ask God. He will surely know what is best for you.

Ask and pray and you shall receive it.

“Therefore I tell you, whatever you ask for in prayer, believe that you have received it, and it will be yours.” Mark 11:24

 I have faith in you and I know you can do it.

 Xoxo

-It’s Me Puff

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