I really feel like an attention seeker every time I want or try to comfort friends, and I've always pushed the feeling and reminding myself it's ok— but the more I do it the more it's pushing back now. Without a doubt whenever i comment to comfort a friend it's right in the back of my head, sneering at me, how obvious the attention seeking is. Especially to a friend that's popular or well known within the community. Idk if I should stop every time a friend vents or negs. Honestly I really don't like this side of me. It's so awkward and weird and attention seeking much. The want to comfort others and the sneering attention seeking.














