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Joey ImperialĀ
Environmental Engineering
Sustainability and Industrial Ecology - UTT, Troyes, France
DISCLAIMER: I thought this had been posted successfully about 4 weeks ago (Mid July), but after coming back to read the my fellow bloggersā latest posts I noticed that this one had never gone through! Anyway, back to our regularly scheduled program :)
7-22-19
As I became situated in my seat for my flight back to Detroit from Paris, I began the daunting task of trying to process everything that I had experienced in the past two months. It felt like I had lived an entire lifetime, but it had happened in the blink of an eye. I tried to identify outstanding moments from my trip. Each one, despite their extreme differences in geographical location and chronological context, had one very clear element in common: the people.
One of my favorite fishing spots just a few minutes away from home
Although quiet and awfully reserved at our Pre-Departure Orientation in April, the group of Michigan students that went on this trip quickly became a second family for me. Their lovable quirks, constant positive energy, and natural kindness made Troyes feel more like home than any foreign destination that Iāve ever been to. We spent countless hours sharing stories, laughing with each other, and learning more about the world through each othersā lenses. They taught me what it means to be a trustworthy friend, to roll with the punches of studying abroad, to not take myself so seriously, and to ALWAYS choose the decision that would make for the better story. It was truly an honor to spend this program with them, and for that I can only give them my most sincere thanks for being such wonderful people.
In Cagliari I remember laying out on the beach, seconds away from slipping into the most peaceful, sun-warmed nap of my life, when the impact of a soccer ball blasted sand into my face. I sat up in immediate frustration to see who the culprit and found a group of 4 young men in the water, smiles beaming, calling for the ball back and asking us to join them in their game. It was just a simple game of monkey in the middle, but they were having the time of their lives and we just couldnāt resist joining them. They were from Gambia, and there were about 3 or 4 words that each party could comprehend from the other, but we spoke to each other in the universal language of play and enjoyment of each otherās presence. It was a truly blissful moment that reminded me of how keeping a childlike innocence when experiencing the world inspires wonder and pure human connections.
Before I left for Troyes I planned to take an excursion to Chamonix during my time in Europe as a way to slow down and make time for myself after a busy 6 weeks with the program. I certainly achievedĀ āalone timeā during my day-long hikes through the beautiful French Alps, but the memories that stuck with me most were the ones that I shared with other people. Meeting and talking with people from around the world on the trails, in the hostel, and in town brought me so much joy, especially in such a naturally beautiful setting. Plus, the majority of people I met were there for the Arcāteryx Alpine Academy, which meant that I was one of the most inexperienced outdoorsmen there. I heard dozens of captivating stories about my friendsā expeditions up Mont Blanc, climbing glaciers, hiking in Croatia, and achieving truly incredible feats that inspired me to enjoy the outdoors more. Their friendship made my planned solitary retreat into a deeply spiritual, social, and emotional experience centered around our passion for the outdoors. Even when I wasnāt expecting it, it was the people who made my experience in the mountains so fulfilling.
Although those were only three examples of people making a difference during my time in Europe, I found that anywhere I went, carrying a smile, a patient attitude, and a willingness to learn from others always resulted in a new friend from another corner of the globe. I think this is what makes studying abroad so worthwhile, especially for engineers. It broadens our perspective, realizing how rich different cultures and people can be, while simultaneously revealing the experiences that universally bond people. We learn that our work in making the world a better place directly impacts these wonderful people that we become friends with. We begin to hold a noble responsibility to care for them through our efforts and work.
Without the countless people I met during my two months abroad, I would only have pictures without stories behind them. Meals without laughter. Nights out without dancing. The people in this world are what make it so special, and to have the opportunity to experience so many of them during this time has been such an immense blessing.
To all those who have been following this blog, to IPE and the University of Michigan, to my parents and family, everyone who has studied abroad before me and encouraged me to go, to all my friends new and old, and to everyone who has changed my life during these past two months in one way or another, I thank you with all that I have. Without your love and support this once in a lifetime experience would not have been possible, and I would surely not be the person I am today. Thank you again, for your everything. And as always, thanks for checking in.
- Joey













