#inviisble

I was listening to the song "Invisible" by Hunter Hayes and it made this thought process occur.

The hardest part of a break up isn't the lost love, it isn't the fact that your alone again, it isn't even the lonliness, its the feeling of not being needed in someone's life. The idea that your not worth keeping in someone's life. That someone can turn away and in the blink of an eye not need you in their life. That what you have to offer means nothing to them, that you are nothing to them. That you are essentially invisible.

I wish I could say that isn't true, I wish I could say that they need you in their life, but the truth is they don't. Why else would they let you go? No matter the circumstance I have come to realize when someone lets you go, they definitively don't understand what they are letting go of, but they also know that they don't want whatever it is that you may have to offer in their lives...even if its for the better of them. I have come to realize some people as much as they would like to say they want to get better and change in a healthy way to make the relationship work out and also to make themselves a better person, they truly don't do it. They don't want to have to change what has become comfortable way of living for anyone....especially not for someone other than themselves.