Pick-A-Pile: What are your Love Languages?
Hello, welcome to your free tarot reading! I created this to offer you insight into your love language. This enables you to better express your needs in a relationship, helps you to find a person that you are most compatible with, and can help you solve current conflicts within your relationship. Knowing your love language(s) brings you closer to your authentic self!
What are the Love Languages?
Not everyone communicates in the same way; and not everyone receives love in the same way. Love languages are the different ways that we go about expressing and receiving love.
1) Quality Time means spending time together, even just to hang out. Someone with this love language appreciates when their partner is fully present and actively listening. Leave out distractions, give eye contact, have some fun together, and share in a meaningful conversation.
2) Deep Talks means connecting in a very intimate way. Someone with this love language will want to bare their Soul, share their secrets, and bond emotionally. They appreciate when their partner takes the time to really understand what they're sharing and who they truly are.
3) Words of Affirmation means verbally expressing your affection. Someone with this love language appreciates encouragement, compliments, and periodic 'I love you's. They like to be reminded through communication of your care; it really means a lot to them.
4) Acts of Service means doing something for your partner to make their life easier. Someone with this love language believes that actions speak louder than words. They like to be shown that they're appreciated through actions; like running an errand for you when you have a busy day, taking care of house chores, or preparing you a meal when you're feeling under the weather.
5) Physical Touch means showing affection through touch. Someone with this love language feels most cared for through actions like cuddling, kissing, holding hands, and backrubs. This type of person feels deeply cared for when their person's warmth is close.
6) Giving/receiving gifts is fairly self explanatory. Someone with this love language feel cared for when their person gives them a physical symbol of their affection. It's not about the money spent, but the thought and effort put into the gift.
The Tarot Spread For This Reading:
The first card represents how you show your love to your partner, when you feel like showing affection. How does your love translate through actions?
The second card represents what actions your partner does or can do that make you feel adored. What love language is compatible with you? What expression or action makes you feel most loved?
The third card represents how you can open yourself up to receiving more love.
How does this reading work?
Take a moment to clear your mind. Take a few slow, deep breaths. Ground yourself in this present moment.
Focus on each pile and listen to which way your intuition nudges you. Listen to the first nudge-- don't over-think it!
When you're ready, scroll down to the pile you've chosen for your reading!
Which pile’s energy resonates with your energy?
Click the image of the pile to go to your reading!
Pile A
Pile B
Pile C
Pile Reveals…..
Are you ready?
PILE A
1) How does your love translate into outward action? 2) What expression or action from your partner makes you feel most loved? 3) How can you open yourself up to receiving more love?
Daughter of Swords has strong throat chakra energy. You value communication. When you have something to say, you don’t beat around the bush. You're the kind of person who prefers to keep things uncomplicated. You do your best to always be honest with your partner. You like to have an open line as much as possible with them. You’re an attentive listener, and you always speak what's on your mind in the present moment.
Your Love Language: Words of Affirmation, Deep Talks
Avoid: Someone that makes you feel like you’re playing mind games.
Knight of Coins represents that you feel most loved when someone is openly loyal and committed to you. You need to know that you are trusted in your relationship, and you need to know that you can trust your partner. You aren’t looking for short flings now; you prefer to develop a deeper, more meaningful connection. One that will bring you a sense of security-- you're through with playing games. The Knight as a person in someone secure, reliable and hardworking. You feel safe and loved when someone cares to put you into their long term plans.
Their Love Language: Acts of Service, Deep Talks
Avoid: Someone inconsistent with their actions.
The World invites you to get out there and put yourself in places and communities that make you feel a true sense of belonging. Speak authentically. In addition, practicing gratitude is a huge heart opener for you! List three things that you’re grateful for in the morning and/or at the end of your day. Create a gratitude journal, and write down moments that fill you with joy and love. Take more action toward doing the things that make you feel whole and fulfilled. Nurture your confidence by doing things that make you feel good and proud of yourself.
PILE B
1) How does your love translate into outward action? 2) What expression or action from your partner makes you feel most loved? 3) How can you open yourself up to receiving more love?
The Devil card has a spicy, passionate, sexual energy to it. You tend to get swept away by the moment. You follow what makes you feel good. You enjoy when your partner takes the lead, and require a partner you feel safe with. Your person has to be someone receptive and able to match your energy. Talk with them before trying something new to make sure they're comfortable.
Your Love Language: Physical touch
Avoid: Someone that makes you feel like you are limiting your pleasure.
The Magician indicates that you appreciate a partner who has a desire to try new things. You like when you person is proactive in love, and creates new opportunities for you to enjoy one another, keeping things exciting and fresh. You need someone that can take action on their own, someone that's clear in what they want. This card describes someone creative in how they show their affection.
Their Love Language: Words of Affirmation
Avoid: Someone with low motivation.
7 of Cups and 10 of Cups simply advises you to stop over-thinking, relax, and be present. Enjoy the now for what it is, whatever it may be. The cards indicate that you likely have options and temptation around; yet feel some uncertainty or hesitation. You may not be sure what you want, or might feel like a choice needs to be made– but don’t allow this to stop you. Get out there and have fun! Remain aware of any gut feelings that feel off or red flags, because the 7 of Cups can be a warning of illusion. However, there’s much fulfillment and happiness waiting for you if you center yourself and allow yourself to feel these positive emotions.
PILE C
1) How does your love translate into outward action? 2) What expression or action from your partner makes you feel most loved? 3) How can you open yourself up to receiving more love?
Strength represents that you’re someone who is controlled and tolerant. You’re deeply compassionate and emotionally mature, someone that’s always very patient with their partner. You have a well established inner power, and feel good when you can give your support to your person. You partner would describe you as their rock, someone that weathers the storm with courage.
Your Love Language: Acts of Service and Quality Time
Avoid: Someone that only wants to take from you, and offers little in return.
6 of Coins represents generosity. You feel cared for when your partner surprises you with something thoughtful as a gift, no matter how big or small. You like to have physical reminders of their affection around. You value making memories with the person you care about, and a gift is a great way to commemorate time spent together or a milestone in your relationship.
Their Love Language: Gifts and Quality Time
Avoid: Someone that makes you feel like your relationship is a chore.
The High Priestess relates to your intuition and inner world. It’s likely that the appearance of this card is letting you know that you already know within yourself what you need to do in order to open yourself up to receiving love. Spend some quiet time alone to tune into your inner voice. Be patient, you are well on your way to receiving!
Thank you for taking part in this reading!
Please feel welcome to leave any comments or feedback below, and I hope to see you again for another reading!
Courtney Deerborn
