#intimacy guide

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ROMANTIC ORIENTATION: Biromantic SEXUAL ORIENTATION: Men... SEXUAL ROLES: dominant.  submissive.  versatile? PENETRATIVE PREFERENCES: Would probably prefer to be on the receiving end, but might be willing to do the alternative on occasion. DOES YOUR MUSE USE A STRAP-ON?: Would be willing to. POSITIONS AS A TOP: being ridden.  missionary.  lotus.  doggy.  flatiron.  legs on shoulders.  standing up.  standing while a partner sits on a surface.  spooning.  side by side. POSITIONS AS A BOTTOM: riding.  missionary.  lotus.  doggy.  flatiron. legs on shoulders. standing up. sitting on a surface. spooning.  side by side.   SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS: monogamous. polyamorous.  open.  swinging. hook-ups. platonic. ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS: monogamous.  polyamorous.  open.  casual. committed. RELATIONSHIP ROLES:  dominant.  submissive. equal. nurturing. being nurtured.  monetary provider. monetarily dependent.  shared monetary burden. independent monetary responsibility.  manages household.  shares household management. prefers separate living spaces.  likes having household managed by partner.   THOUGHTS ON MARRIAGE (Or closest Equal): Not something they ever expect for themself, but something they would be open to in their dreams.. DOES YOUR MUSE GET JEALOUS/POSSESSIVE?: Absolutely not, no. DOES YOUR MUSE LIKE POSSESSIVE PARTNERS?: I think it would make them uncomfortable beyond the most playfully light-hearted of possessive behavior at most, yk? DO THEY LIKE DOM/SUB ROLES IN ALL ASPECTS OF RELATIONSHIPS? (i.e. dom’s responsibility both sexually and in life is to take care of the sub and look after them. sometimes utilizing sexual and nonsexual rewards/punishments to incentivize them to carry out self-care or other responsibilities): Hard to say much with their zero experience, but unlikely that they'd be interested in this sort of thing. WHAT DOES AFTERCARE LOOK LIKE TO THEM?: Again they have very little experience due to isolation, but I think it would look like a lot of reassurances and a couple check-ins, no matter the quad. WHAT ARE WAYS THEY PREFER TO BUILD EMOTIONAL INTIMACY?: If you can make them feel safe or indulge in their dramaticism a little bit it goes a long way and means a lot to them... less specifically getting the chance to have quality time with someone isn't something they get often and I think it'd be a preferred method to form an intimate connection.

ROMANTIC ORIENTATION: Gay boyy SEXUAL ORIENTATION: Gay boy SEXUAL ROLES: dominant.  submissive.  versatile. PENETRATIVE PREFERENCES:  Switch, although he can have preferences with certain partners, DOES YOUR MUSE USE A STRAP-ON?:  Nope POSITIONS AS A TOP: being ridden.  missionary.  lotus.  doggy.  flatiron.  legs on shoulders.  standing up.  standing while a partner sits on a surface.  spooning.  side by side. POSITIONS AS A BOTTOM: riding.  missionary.  lotus.  doggy.  flatiron. legs on shoulders. standing up. sitting on surface. spooning.  side by side.   SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS: monogamous. polyamorous.  open.  swinging. hook-ups. platonic. ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS: monogamous.  polyamorous.  open.  casual*.  committed. RELATIONSHIP ROLES:  dominant.  submissive. equal. nurturing.  being nurtured.  monetary provider.  monetarily dependent.  shared monetary burden. independent monetary responsibility.  manages household.  shares household management. prefers separate living spaces.  likes having household managed by partner.   THOUGHTS ON MARRIAGE (Or closest Equal): Nope, not his thing anymore- maybe in his college days he'd have entertained it but not anymore. If someone was going to stay with you long-term you don't need any sort or ritual or something to prove it. DOES YOUR MUSE GET JEALOUS/POSSESSIVE?: Possessive no, jealous though? Yeah, a bit- mostly from insecurity than anything else. Not bold enough to bring it up though. DOES YOUR MUSE LIKE POSSESSIVE PARTNERS?: He for sure does, yeah. Despises that he does tho, you'd have to wring a confession of this out of him and it would not be easy. DO THEY LIKE DOM/SUB ROLES IN ALL ASPECTS OF RELATIONSHIPS? (i.e. dom’s responsibility both sexually and in life is to take care of the sub and look after them. sometimes utilizing sexual and nonsexual rewards/punishments to incentivize them to carry out self-care or other responsibilities): Jules is not against being persuaded to do things for sexy little treats, as mentioned in Oda's post for this. Otherwise though? keep them separate. WHAT DOES AFTERCARE LOOK LIKE TO THEM?: In terms of receiving it he doesn't really see it any particular way, honestly, I think he would take whatever type or amount was offered to him. Giving it he does his best with... once you get to this part of things his awkward, shyer side can come out more. Still, he'll quietly check in with you... ask if you need water or something when he gets it for himself.. maybe offers to share a shower or smthn, WHAT ARE WAYS THEY PREFER TO BUILD EMOTIONAL INTIMACY?: Honestly being shown attention and consideration, along with having stimulating conversations, is a great way to build closeness with him. In terms of how he tries to build it with other people, he usually tends to lean towards their interests and passions and tries to share those with them.

ROMANTIC ORIENTATION: Biromantic SEXUAL ORIENTATION:  Bisexual SEXUAL ROLES:   dominant.  submissive.  versatile.   PENETRATIVE PREFERENCES:  He's very much a switch, happy to do either. DOES YOUR MUSE USE A STRAP-ON?:  Nah POSITIONS AS A TOP:   being ridden.  missionary.  lotus.  doggy.  flatiron.  legs on shoulders.  standing up.  standing while partner sits on a surface.  spooning.  side by side.   POSITIONS AS A BOTTOM:  riding.  missionary.  lotus.  doggy.  flatiron.  legs on shoulders.  standing up.  sitting on surface.  spooning.  side by side.   SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS:  monogamous.  polyamorous.  open.  swinging.  hook-ups.  platonic. ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS:  monogamous.  polyamorous.  open.  casual.  committed.   RELATIONSHIP ROLES:  dominant.  submissive. equal.  nurturing.  being nurtured.  monetary provider.  monetarily dependent.  shared monetary burden. independent monetary responsibility.  manages household.  shares household management. prefers separate living spaces.  likes having household managed by partner.   THOUGHTS ON MARRIAGE (Or closest Equal): He acts pretty casual, but honestly I think he'd like it a lot. He'd never presume anyone would commit to something with him like this though and thus probably wouldn't bring it up. DOES YOUR MUSE GET JEALOUS/POSSESSIVE?: Maybe slightly on occasion, but any time it happens he keeps it to himself. DOES YOUR MUSE LIKE POSSESSIVE PARTNERS?: He's never had one so it'd be hard to say. I think he'd be into a tiny bit of it, perhaps. DO THEY LIKE DOM/SUB ROLES IN ALL ASPECTS OF RELATIONSHIPS? (i.e. dom’s responsibility both sexually and in life is to take care of the sub and look after them. sometimes utilizing sexual and nonsexual rewards/punishments to incentivize them to carry out self-care or other responsibilities): He prefers sexual stuff and otherwise to have a standard amount of separation in most cases-- however I can 100% see him utilizing sexual rewards if it would get someone to take better care of themself... he used this tactic with Jules sometimes in the past. WHAT DOES AFTERCARE LOOK LIKE TO THEM?: He tailors this to what he thinks his partner will be most receptive to, but it's often a calm voice asking how they're doing, if they enjoyed themself, asking if they need anything etc. He'll also do gentle touches and kisses if those are appropriate for his partner. WHAT ARE WAYS THEY PREFER TO BUILD EMOTIONAL INTIMACY?: Odarem likes to do things specifically that work with his partner's love languages to build intimacy and show attentiveness. He also just likes spending time with and talking to people in general. The more time he blocks out to spend with you intentionally, the more he's showing genuine interest in you as a person.

ROMANTIC ORIENTATION: Biromantic SEXUAL ORIENTATION: Bisexual SEXUAL ROLES: dominant.  submissive.  versatile.   PENETRATIVE PREFERENCES:  Usually prefers to top, but is alright either way. DOES YOUR MUSE USE A STRAP-ON?:  I promise he does not need one POSITIONS AS A TOP: being ridden.  missionary.  lotus.  doggy.  flatiron.  legs on shoulders.  standing up.  standing while partner sits on a surface.  spooning.  side by side.   POSITIONS AS A BOTTOM: riding.  missionary.  lotus.  doggy.  flatiron.  legs on shoulders. standing up. sitting on surface.  spooning.  side by side.   SEXUAL RELATIONSHIPS: monogamous. polyamorous.  open.  swinging.  hook-ups. platonic. ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS: monogamous? (Red and Pitch).  polyamorous (Pale).  open.  casual.  committed. RELATIONSHIP ROLES:  dominant.  submissive. equal. nurturing.  being nurtured.  monetary provider.  monetarily dependent.  shared monetary burden. independent monetary responsibility.  manages household.  shares household management. prefers separate living spaces.  likes having household managed by partner.   THOUGHTS ON MARRIAGE (Or closest Equal): I don't think he has any thoughts on anything like that simply due to lack of knowledge, but I know if he ever learned about it and someone asked him he'd probably get all teary eyed.. DOES YOUR MUSE GET JEALOUS/POSSESSIVE?: He can actually get possessive quite a bit at times, but he's much to respectful of other peoples boundaries and autonomy to act on it. Will mention it if his partners are into it, though, DOES YOUR MUSE LIKE POSSESSIVE PARTNERS?: I don't think he'd like it at all actually. DO THEY LIKE DOM/SUB ROLES IN ALL ASPECTS OF RELATIONSHIPS? (i.e. dom’s responsibility both sexually and in life is to take care of the sub and look after them. sometimes utilizing sexual and nonsexual rewards/punishments to incentivize them to carry out self-care or other responsibilities): Nope, that stuff's not really up his alley... except, maybe.. he'd wear a collar in daily life for someone he deeply trusted, ngl... WHAT DOES AFTERCARE LOOK LIKE TO THEM?: Big fan of holding people and carrying them if they've gotten worn out.. brings you to the bath or the bed etc. But also caring reality checks and touches. WHAT ARE WAYS THEY PREFER TO BUILD EMOTIONAL INTIMACY?: He doesn't really know how to do that on purpose very well tbqh w/ you... I think honestly just spending time with people and getting to know and understand them and what they're about, yk?