#interracial relationship problems

Here’s a small snippet of Mercedes’ and Sam’s argument, immediately following the disastrous Christmas Dinner at Nettie’s. I’ve added some GIFs for mood. Enjoy! 

Tired of people Who are like this with this backwards ass thinking.

If a black woman wants to date a white dude she can. She can date anyone she wants. Any woman can. Women don't belong to nobody. We belong to our own damn selves.

Black ladies everywhere. Don't listen to these hotep,small brained sexist bitch asses. Live your life. And love yourself. Go n find you a man or a woman that loves you. Stay safe. I love y'all

And black dudes if you see another black dude saying fuck shit about black girls dating interracially. Step up and tell them to stop.

Dudes that say that fucked up shit about black girls give the good ones a bad name. I should know,I have a good one. So please speak out against this shit.

Then fuck you.

It doesn’t matter what the fuck their skin color is or where they come from.if someone loves that person. That’s their business not yours. Stay the fuck out of other people’s love lives.

God people piss me off.

I wanna say grow the fuck up. Love is love and people are gonna be with whoever makes them happy. If they happen to be white. Then cool. If they aren’t. Still cool.

Black men and women who are with white women and men still get hate. Even in 2017.

Hell anyone regardless of who they are get hate for being with who they love. It's sad.

Some are even killed. Or disowned by ungrateful racist parents. It’s sad but it happens.

They choose to love each other in a world full of hate,fear,jealousy,and insecurity.

If that’s not progressive. I dunno what is. So don’t give me that fuck shit.

Oh and btw. I love my fiancé and all of my friends who come from many different backgrounds. I would take a bullet for each and every one of them. And I am disappointed in humanity for keeping this hate n closed mindedness.

I don’t care what anyone thinks of me. Because I’m happy being me. Maybe if some people would stop being bitter and do something with their lives instead of worrying about others. Maybe we wouldn’t have this problem.

And just because you share the same skin color doesn’t mean you automatically see eye to eye.

Some of you are scared of change and something different than you.

Our interracial relationship travel has been a excellent and challenging encounter, filled with adore, growth, and overcoming impediments. As a mixed-race couple, we've explored social differences, societal biases, and family objection, but we've too found bliss, acknowledgment, and a more profound understanding of each other.

You here to live for you.

So please stop trying to impress society.

Start trying to live life for YOU!

I see so many people in interracial relationships worried about their kids. Worried that the world will see them as black and not mixed or biracial. It's common. And yes it happens. But your child isn't here for other people. Your child is here for themselves.

They aren't just black or just white or just one part. They are both,all,and a whole being.

They don't have to choose. And you don't have to raise them to choose.

Stop trying to give a fuck what others think.

Don't appease a world,a goverment,a society that could care less if you live or die today.

Live you life how you see fit. Do what best for your child. Teach them to love all the parts of themselves. Teach them to love and have compassion. Teach them love is stronger than their hate.

Teach them goodness and humanity.

And all humans come in many colors shapes sizes and types. Humans are beautiful. And life is beautiful. Not everyone is nice. And not everyone understands. But teach them to help others learn how to love again.

So please fight against a racist system that wants to tear you down. Even interracial relationships and couples and families and biracial n mixed kids suffer because of that.

They erase us.

Or at least try.

I won't stand for that.

My kids will be taught to love all of themselves. Not just the black not just white not just the irish,the native American,all of themselves. They are a bit of mommy and a bit of daddy. And 100% full of love.

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Take back your personal power. You and you alone live for only you in life. And as a parent you do what is best for your children. I am not gonna let society win. And I'm not gonna let a system that is corrupt hurt my children. And that includes how we see each other. We are human.we are going to a mixed beautiful family. And we are gonna be boss af. And there is nothing anyone can do about it.

My child will love themselves wholly. They will love their curls and brown skin. And they will love their eyes and smile n nose. They will love their momma n daddy and their grandma n grandpa n all their family. They will love themselves fully and wholly. They will be loved and supported. No matter what the world says.

I'm sorry if I'm heated. But it hurts me that the world still craps on relationships like mine. And the fruitaions and families that come out of it. Bi racial and mixed kids and people get so much shit thrown at them. All because of the fact their parents fell in love. It saddens and sickens my stomach that people are still that racist.

So please. Teach your children to love and love themselves wholly. All of themselves.

Teach them to be compassionate and caring. Teach others to as well.

Children are our future. Please make them to be more loving. We don't have any more room for hate,division and corruption.

I want loving,positive,and FUCKING DECENT POSTS ABOUT INTERRACIAL COUPLES!

Is that so hard to ask for?

I don't want fucking posts about fuck shit anymore

Stop with that hotep,fuck shit,lying ass,dumb fuck shit.

We are couples just like any fucking couple.

Love is love bitches.

This happens waaaaay too much with black and white Couples. Both men and women. Worse with lgbt cpuples.

Dont give me that crap that you see it too much. It's not good representation. I either see stereotypes or porn.

That's it.

That's not representation.

No not all interracial relationships and couples involve a white person. But for the ones that do. We sure as hell still get stigma and hate.

And it's not always at face value. Sometimes it's passive aggressive. I've seen it.

It sucks.

But I love my fiancé more then people hate us.

That's why I make content that shows couples like mine in positive light. Talks about heavy topics and deals with the couples and treats them like any other couple.

White people in case y'all don't know still are hated for dating interracially. And it's not always upfront.

It's shown in media too.

It's always conveiantly attractive couples too. Not average Joes,not realistic couples. It's all pretty and makeup n glitz for the camera.

Real relationships are hard work but at the same time you love this person with all your heart. They can be a plain in the ads but their YOUR pain in the ass. Nobody else can hurt them or call them that. Otherwise they'll put the Smack down.

It's also not a matter of the fact they show black n white couples a lot. It's why to they show them in a white man's perspective? Whether straight or not. Regardless if the couple is straight,bisexual,trans,queer,etc

Get an interracial couple to do more tv,movies and representation of interracial relationships and then come back to me.