Confidence/Independence Charm
I recently found this fancy lil ring in my house that's gold (not real) with a deep purple stone (again, probably not real, but it still looks really cool). It sort of gave me confident badass vibes, like some elegant woman who can easily kick your ass would wear it, haha. It's so not me tbh, but I'm good at pretending to be someone else xD (It's a BPD thing). Anyways, I could use the extra confidence, and I kinda have trouble with trying to be more independent, so I thought I'd charm the ring to help out!
What I used in this spell:
Object to charm (obviously)
Black pepper (banishing negativity)
Red pepper (energy, strength)
Ginger (confidence)
Rosemary (clear thinking)
Onion (banishing bad habits [my bad habit being avoiding anything that causes the slightest bit of stress])
Honeysuckle (persuasiveness, confidence)
Sage (self purification, mental ability)
Frankincense (self will, self control)
Salt (protection)
Tarragon (confidence, courage, strength)
Water (sun water if you like)
A sheet of paper or something to write on that you don't mind getting wet (and possibly throwing away later)
Bowl
Paint brush/finger/etc
Ground up the herbs if they aren't already, mix in enough water to form a paste. Use the paste to paint sigils and/or words on the paper, such as "I am confident" or "this charm brings me strength". Place the non-herbs around the paper (preferably in a circle), with the charm in the middle. Visualize the energies from the sigils flowing into your charm, focus on feeling confident and independent, like you can take on the world. Listen to empowering music if you want.
When the spell is over, charge it in the sunlight for a while, and wear/carry it whenever needed. When not using it, I suggest placing it somewhere up high (you know, kinda like a throne), where you can see it and be reminded of its existence and its purpose.
