#ignorehate

I wish no one ever felt the need to tell somebody else what they should/shouldn’t do. I wish people wouldn’t want to control your feelings towards someone. I wish they understood that everyone falls in love in ways that maybe even themselves would never understand. I wish people knew that it’s not your fault to be friends with the kid who’s rude to them yet is actually being nice to you. I wish they’d understand that it’s not your fault if you fall for somebody whom they hate. I wish they knew what it feels like to love something/someone but not being able to say anything about it without getting judged. Sometimes you have no control over your feelings, you are not entitled to say if you want to feel something or not, if you love it then you do and if you don’t then you don’t and that’s that; but don’t ever tell someone they’re doing something wrong just because you disagree with what they’re doing. Don’t hate on them, don’t talk about them, respect them always. If you’re mature enough, you’ll know that nothing you say will ever change the way someone feels towards somebody/something. Perspective is an important thing. Some things that people do may seem bad to you, or you might disagree, or you might hate what they’re doing and that’s okay. What is not okay is going around telling people that you hate on someone just because they did that one thing they love but you dislike. People are allowed to walk away from you even if you don’t want them too. People are allowed to leave you for someone else if the other person makes them happier. People are allowed to love your enemy, or anyone that you might hate. YOUR FRIENDS are allowed to do all of the above, and just because they do that stuff, that doesn’t mean they’re not your friends. Your friends are entitled to talk, fall in love, or do anything else that you think it’s disrespectful or rude, if that makes them happy. Don’t get mad at your friend because he/she disagrees with you, don’t get mad because they love that one person that made you miserable, don’t get mad because they feel things for someone because they don’t have control over that kind of stuff. Be sweet, be nice, respect others’ feelings as well as their actions, don’t make them do things they don’t want to do, don’t stop them from running towards the one who makes them feel cared for and safe, don’t even try to stop them from what makes them happy.

STOP!!!!!! In case you haven’t been told today you’re beautiful, important and matter and I love you so please ignore the hate and stay strong xxx continue :)