#ifyouloveyourself

It hurts to see people in a relationship where it is no good for them.

👉👉👉& they won’t ever leave because their “love” for someone else overshadows the love they have for themselves. 👈👈👈

Self love is soooooo important.

The person getting abused will stay and let the other person emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physically abuse them. Drag them through fucking hell but somewhere in their mind they think that that is all they will ever be able to receive in terms of “love”. So they stay. After a while, it gets to the point you can’t fully fault the abuser entirely anymore because this person now won’t leave the relationship after seeking help and advice. They know it’s bad for them but stay anyway. So they are now volunteering for the abusive. They’ve become addicted, like an addict.

They control you and can manipulate you. They know they can do whatever they want now because you won't ever leave.

That’s not love. They think it’s love though. It’s

1. More of the feeling that one NEEDS to have someone all the time,

2. Is scared they won’t find another and

3. Scared of being alone.

If one loves themselves, there are a number of things they won’t allow to happen….

1. Won’t allow disrespect of any form. Not to them, their friends, their family ect.

2. There will be no physical abuse going on

3. If someone cheats, they will leave. Aint no second chances.

4. If they find themselves having to question your love or respect…. ✌(Dueces)

5. Having to play detective and snoop around (This means there is no trust. LEAVE)

When you love yourself nobody can hurt you. You can get your feelings hurt yes, however you still know YOU come first and the VERY FIRST sign of someone trying to diss you or hurt you…. you’ll know it’s time to exit.

Even with friends and family. These abusive relationships exists within “friendships” and “families” too.

It does not matter if that’s your family. That’s even more of a reason for one to be more protective of their self love. Family don’t do that shit! Well at least they aren’t supposed to…..but it happens anyways. DO NOT FEEL confined to having to put up with abuse or disrespect of any form. Respect is still a factor. Goes back to them feeling genetically entitled and can say and do anything they want because you’re relatives or they are older than you…. NO! That is not love OR tough love…. that is false love.

Same thing with so called friends. This should be the easiest one. Chuck the duece and keep it pushing!

Work on loving youself. Know your worth. Know what you deserve. You don’t disrespect youself right? SO don’t allow anyone else to do so or “Congratulations, you just played yourself.”