#identity changes

In all honesty, it takes time.

I know that’s probably not what you want to hear, but it’s true for many aces. 

I kind of went through the same thing when I first discovered my asexuality.  In order to help myself out with coming to terms with who I was, I did what I did best… I read.  I found that reading other’s accounts of how they discovered their asexuality seemed to help.  It made me realize that even though I came to the party later in life and with some uncertainty, I’d found my place finally.

name: kezi

if we're mutuals you can call me kezi or ira

gender: non-binary

pronouns: he/him or they/them

Sorry for the long post |D

So the important part, name changes:

I'd like everyone to start calling me Kezi.

Mutuals can call me either Ira or Kezi.

People I'm really really close to can call me Kris.

If you are unsure which of these you fall into, please feel free to send me a message to ask ; u ;

And now identity changes:

I don't really feel...like anything at the moment? If you've been following me for a while, you'll know that I identified as genderfluid for a while, until I realised I was transgender. Well, for the past few weeks, I've been back to struggling with my identity, not knowing who I am and stuff, and after much much confusion, I'm going to identify as non-binary until I find a more suitable label for how I feel. As for pronouns, you can still refer to me as he/him/his, but I also don't mind they/them ; u ;