Nov 5, 2018
some girl on the buss called me a boy for a solid 5 minutes and i was very very very unbothered (my hair was under a hat, with a baggy letterman and painted nails shoved in pockets).
I told ateru this, and asked if he would be bothered if i was his boyfriend. he firmly told me he’d mind, only because he wasnt really into men, and wouldnt see me as a man due to my excessive femininity (as well as he wants to date me and he doesnt find men attractive).
so ive been in weird gender limbo where i dont...really care. i dont mind. but people do apparently. people can tell what gender they are based on like...feelings? people can turn off attraction to a gender that they dont like. ...how?
#rem rambles#i...think im agender?#or non-binary.#but im fine being cis female. and id be fine if people refered to me as a boy. or both. or neither.#it...truly doesnt matter to me..#but i enjoy rather feminine things. so i think itd be best to remain cis female.#*deletes 'what gender am i quiz' from google search history
