i saw your post about flaky's gender and i 100% agree. there's enough ambiguity in the design and some behind-the-scenes discussion that show the different readings have persisted in the fandom but i find it so... flattening? to make flaky simply cis when the developers gave you enough hints as to why that might be more complicated.
cishet people have a history of erasing queer characters' queerness to fit their gender binary, the most recent example I can give is kris's wiki page.
there is not a single reason why kris, a canon nonbinary character's pronouns need that many sources other than the 1 time. they're being purposefully misgendered by cishet fans and having their queerness erased to (usually) fit a male binary.
in flaky's case they're being put into a female binary and hyperfeminized just so cishet fans don't have to deal with the queer implications when shipping them with male characters instead of y'know...giving a shit about the 3 canon girls in the whole show